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Dear Diana,
I've been in this relationship for almost two years now. The problem is that he wants me to sleep with him and because I turned him down, he has started treating me like trash. He imposes restrictions on my dressing and food. He says that he feels like a fool being a 22-year-old virgin. I know he loves me but I can't take such behaviour!
Karishma
Dear Karishma,
If after two years, you still haven't reached a point where you would want to sleep with hinm out of your own free will, it would be construed as a personal choice and he has no right to force you to. And if you don't want that, why would you let him dictate your dressing or food habits. I'm sure there are scores of 22-year-old (or older) virgins around who are far less desperate than he is. If you can't take the way he is, just make that clear and tell him that if his silly behaviour doesn't cease, you will walk out on him.
She won't make love to me
Dear Diana,
I am 21 years old and in love with a girl from the same caste. We are connected through phone only. But she says that she can't make love to me (but she does love me). Should I hang around or check out my options?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
You can't compel someone to love you or make love to you. It doesn't work that way. Couples cross that bridge when they reach a point in the relationship where they can be most open with each other, and go on to share their bodies in the most intimate way.
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