The concept of love in modern India has changed significantly from the way it was perceived by previous generations; in the past, the longevity and social acceptance of a couple's union determined whether or not they would be viewed as a successful marriage or partnership. Today, in addition to being long-term and socially acceptable, a person's happiness, emotional fulfilment, and mutual development have begun to take precedence over the couple's time spent together. However, behind all the happy-looking pictures found on social media posts and family memos, many couples seem to be together, but in reality, there may not be a genuine connection between them. The results from a survey conducted by Gleeden and IPSOS with over 1500 respondents from Tier 1 and Tier 2 cities indicate that a wide array of needs and expectations must be met for a couple to be able to feel fulfilled in their relationship. The findings indicate a substantial disconnect for most people and that most people don't even realise how strong their connection with each other is until they properly explore their feelings about their relationship. Sybil Shiddell, country manager, Gleeden India, states that "The changing nature of relationships is exhibiting a major shift. People are now focusing more on emotional fulfilment than on commitment and are seeking deep, lasting connections instead of the convenience of the moment. As this survey illustrates, emotional fulfilment has eclipsed commitment as a major element of a successful Indian relationship. Furthermore, as more people understand that love can only grow through consistent communication and mutual respect, they are less likely to stay in unfulfilling and stagnant relationships." Feel it, don’t just say it: The emotional gap Many believe emotional connection is the "invisible glue" that binds all love and other intimate relationships together. Still, many couples, even those that are both committed to each other, now share the same physical space without an emotional relationship — thus creating an environment of lonely silence. This emotional disconnect is most likely to be seen in smaller cities, like Tier-2 in India, where societal values often discourage open emotional expression. Overall, the survey found that 51 per cent of participants reported that they experienced unfulfilled feelings of emotional connection within their relationship, increasing to 55 per cent in Tier-2 cities compared to 46 per cent for Tier-1 cities. Therefore, it appears that the emotional neglect of partners may be a larger contributing factor to relationship problems than conflict between partners. Touch me, but also talk to me: The intimacy debate While it is generally thought that emotional intimacy will lead to physical intimacy for many partners, physical intimacy decreases with time due to routine, stress, and communication breakdowns. In more conservative social settings, such as Tier-2 cities, many partners are embarrassed to discuss the topic of sexual intimacy; therefore, the divide may be increased even more. The survey found that 38 per cent of participants across all Tier-1 and -2 cities felt that sexual intimacy was missing from their relationship, with Tier-1 city respondents reporting 34 per cent missing it, and Tier-2 reporting 41 per cent. Therefore, intimacy is not merely something that is physical; it is directly related to emotional comfort and trust. Same love, no thrill: The boredom factor Long-term relationships typically fall into predictable patterns where romance gives way to routine and passion is replaced by practicality. Although stability in long-term relationships is desired, many individuals, especially those in Tier-1 cities, feel they are losing the excitement and thrill they originally shared in their long-term relationship. The survey concluded that at least 42 per cent of respondents feel that they lack excitement or thrill in their long-term relationship. This shows that emotional monotony in long-term relationships is a universal issue that occurs across all Tier-1 and Tier-2 cities. We live together, but don’t really talk: Communication crisis Communication is a vital component in a strong relationship; however, most people who are in a couple relationship don't communicate on anything other than a logistical basis (scheduling, finances) or based on obligations to their family (child care). Over time, the inability to communicate on a meaningful level creates an emotional gap between the couple; even in the best of relationships. Survey results when broken down show this trend; a high percentage of people about 44 per cent indicated that they wish they had better communication skills to improve their relationship experience. This gap exists in both Tier 1 and Tier 2 cities. While many couples have expressed their dissatisfaction with the amount of communication in their relationship, the survey also demonstrated that many couples are content with the level of communication between them. Approximately a quarter of all respondents (25 per cent) expressed total satisfaction with their relationship, and this percentage has remained consistent in all areas studied. The Gleeden - IPSOS survey offers a snapshot of the changing face of romantic relationships in contemporary India. It indicates that romance is no longer simply about staying together; rather, it is about continuing to grow together. For many Indians, this process has just begun.
30 January,2026 01:26 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentFinding love again is often tougher for those who are divorced, separated or widowed, as they are afraid of getting hurt, or simply losing the person they love. However, there seems to be a change, as more Indians are changing the way they think, and that also includes single parents, according to a new survey. Conducted by Indian matchmaking and matrimony app Rebounce, the survey shows how there is a shift in how Indians are approaching love, remarriage, and second chances. Rebounce's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, explained, "Seeking love after divorce or considering remarriage after loss is slowly moving away from being a taboo to a conscious and hopeful next step. The early traction of our app clearly shows that Indians are no longer stuck in the failed marriage narrative. The new generation believes in continuing to live a full and happy life, and giving love a second chance is a huge part of it." Casual swipes are out, high intent is in The user data shows that over 53 per cent of men and 64.6 per cent of women on the app are actively looking for marriage, not merely exploring or seeking casual dates. The data clearly indicates that second chances are pursued with more intent and purpose. The typical age of the app's users is early 30s, and they are noted to be more emotionally mature, seeking long-term stability, and most of them are presently navigating or dealing with the aftermath of a serious life event, such as divorce or loss of a loved one. On average, women seeking second chances are around 35 and men 31, debunking the myth that remarriage is a later-life decision and is only pursued for companionship, not romance. Data from the app also show that 8 out of 10 Indians are specifically looking for love, not just a marriage of convenience or company for old age. Single parents looking for commitment The app’s consumer data provides a telling insight into the mindset of single parents. 55 per cent of single fathers and 68 per cent of single mothers are looking for marriage-led relationships on the app. Compatibility, not stigma The data shows an interesting trend: users are not rigid about their match's marital history, signalling a notable shift toward compatibility-first relationships and remarriages, where emotional alignment, values, and clarity matter more than labels. Even something as simple as travel compatibility is prioritised over the past experience of a match, with the numbers showing over 57 per cent of men considering travel compatibility an important factor, and only less than 9 per cent taking marital history into consideration while looking for the right match. The numbers also prove that users are serious about a future together. More than success, it's a change in mindse.This reflects a positive shift in people's mindset. Divorce is no longer the end. The app shared that users look at divorce or separation as a mere pause before another beginning. When it comes to users seeking long-term relationships, the finding is intriguing. Men with 22.2 per cent are more interested in an exclusive, long-term relationship than women with 16.1 per cent. Men and women are noted to be displaying relationship and partner-seeking patterns that stem from more clarity, lived experience, and courage to restart.
30 January,2026 12:58 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentDating hasn't gotten louder, faster, or messier as many predicted. Instead, it has become smarter, and it is not only men but also the women, who are make sure that they are in control. According to a recent consumer study by Indian dating app QuackQuack, 57 per cent of women actively use new-age techniques and strategies to filter, protect, and attract the most compatible matches. The non-stop swiping with the "the next one might be even better" mentality, or the matching for validation, is slowly coming to an end. The survey reveals that it is being replaced by an intentional and self-protecting dating style, which has altered how profiles are curated, conversations unfold, and connections are formed. The online survey was conducted among 9685 active female daters from metros, suburbs, and rural India. Participants were between the ages of 20 and 35, and belonged to different educational and professional fields, including IT, healthcare, finance, sales and marketing, education, content creation, and entrepreneurship. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "As a dating app, we have several safety checks in place to protect our users, but protecting their feelings or from getting their hearts broken is another thing. This new self-protective dating style among women reflects emotional maturity. Women are not dating to fill a void or meet their checklist. They are dating with the intention of finding peace in love, understanding themselves better, and making room for meaningful connections. Their strategies are more conscious than cautious." Female GazeConnections made on dating apps were always thought to be built on superficial attraction. People with attractive profile pictures get more matches. But that's not the case, and women are here to prove it. 87 in 100 women disclosed that the female gaze does not fall on physical appearance, but rather on how emotionally mature and intelligent the profile appears in one glance. Over-polished or perfectly posed photos, or ultra-strategic bios, don't stand out for women. 48 per cent of female daters said they want relaxed, real, and layered; a candid smile, some silly bio that talks about lived experiences, and hints rather than explains. The female gaze loves a profile that attracts curiosity instead of demanding attention. Soft LaunchingDramatic romance updates and declarations are still there, but more women are slowly moving towards a softer launch: a whisper before the announcement. 36 per cent of women between 25 and 35 years of age explained that they prefer gradually introducing their partner through social media stories and posts, with a blurred photo here, a special mention of "mine" there. Anita (33), a professor from Delhi, shared, "I always felt that slow introduction helped me protect mine and my partner's emotional boundaries, but at the same time, we have the flexibility to share our happiness with the world. With soft launching, you avoid external opinion and even premature labels, and still have the scope to assess compatibility." Profile ShieldingOne of the most interesting shifts in recent years is the technique of Profile Shielding by women. 41 per cent of female daters from metros and smaller cities revealed adding intentional layers to their profiles to avoid emotional burnout. These typically include clear mention of deal breakers, clear intent indicators, minimal disclosure through bios, and more. 4 in 5 women say profile shields have helped them avoid mismatched expectations, unwanted matches, and emotional labour on incompatible connections. 27-year-old Prakriti from Bengaluru said, "This is not a guarded approach. I see it as being emotionally responsible. Certain information about me should only be available to people who are close to my heart; that's how you protect yourself from getting hurt. No amount of dating app safety features or filters can save you from a heartbreak if you are not making a conscious effort."
29 January,2026 04:40 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentDivorce was once considered the end, but today, thanks to the changing societal perspective, for many Indians, it is starting to look like the pause before a new chapter begins. The new beginning comes with a lot of lessons, understanding, clarity, and determination toward a far more honest approach for the "next time around." A recent study by Indian matchmaking and matrimony app Rebounce, revealed that 3 in 5 divorced singles who re-entered the dating scene in 2025 now have new deal-breakers that did not exist during their first marriage. The data shows these are not unrealistic expectations but rather practical survival skills learned the hard way. The user study was conducted among 5834 active daters who are divorced or separated. Participants ranged in age from 27 to 40 and came from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "The study reveals a clear change in mindset about second chances. People are no longer ready to settle or compromise. Second chances have become more about newfound clarity and intentional compatibility. Divorced singles are highly emotionally literate; they know what didn't work, what eventually hurts, and they are making conscious efforts not to repeat the pattern." Emotional availability is now a non-negotiableOne of the top deal breakers to emerge in the survey is an emotionally unavailable partner. Nearly 44 per cent of women and 32 per cent of men from metros and suburbs shared that they have ignored emotional unavailability before, excusing it as a hectic schedule, preoccupied with office works, and even "we have been married too long;" but they realised that being emotionally available is a choice that can be made even at the busiest of hours and in the longest of marriages. Tarini (35) from Mumbai, said, "Silence is not strength and quietly staying with an emotionally unavailable partner is not doing any good to your mental health or the health of your marriage. I understand that now." The study reveals that divorced daters are now paying close attention to how people communicate, what they say, how long they take to say it, and how consistent their actions are with their words. Rajeev, 38 year old pediatrician, commented, "For me, slow replies are completely fine. I understand that we are all grown adults, not teenagers with only love to think of. But detachment and inconsistencies are unacceptable. I don't want to do the emotional heavy lifting all alone once again." Financial transparencyMoney might still be an awkward topic for young daters, but daters focused on second chances are more direct about it, calling it an absolutely necessary conversation. 6 in 10 people between 30 and 40 explained that it is not about how much a match earns but understanding how responsible they are with their earnings. Financial secrecy and irresponsibility have become a deal breaker for many second-time daters. 33 year old Samira from Delhi said, "It doesn't mean divorced singles are money-minded. It's just that we know how debt or other secret financial obligations on a partner can affect your life. Understanding spending habits, and to some extent, having an idea of someone's earnings, is honestly practical, no matter what anyone says. I am working; I don't need a provider. But I need someone who's upfront and not spending beyond his capacity for showing off." "Subtle" disrespectAlmost 31 per cent of female daters above 30 years disclosed facing subtle disrespect in their first marriage, mostly masked as "just a joke" and everyday dismissals. They addressed being talked over often, being cut off mid-conversation, mocking emotions, and brushing off concerns as "you are such an overthinker," and now strictly consider any such behavior as a deal breaker in their renewed attempt to find love. Paromita (38) from Kolkata said, "My threshold for all these has sharply dropped since my divorce. I don't want a man who doesn't think I deserve respect."
15 January,2026 06:35 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentThe definition of infidelity in India has changed due to the rise of technology. Marriage is no longer just about being sexually faithful; it also includes emotional and mental fidelity. As technology (more specifically, dating apps and social media) removes the boundaries between friendship, flirting and desire, individuals are forced to redefine what loyalty means in the modern world. Emotional closeness and mental distraction, which was previously thought of as harmless, are quickly becoming part of what betrayal means to couples today. The Gleeden - IPSOS study of infidelity included 1,510 responses from individuals living in both Tier 1 and Tier 2 cities. The study shows married couples are setting up complicated and strict rules for what they believe constitutes a commitment today. Rather than a simple "yes" or "no" for fidelity in the future there will be multiple layers of expectations. Not just an affair anymore Infidelity last decade was based on sexual infidelity being the most important thing. Today, 53 per cent of respondents said that sexual intimacy outside of marriage with a regular partner is infidelity; 47 per cent said any form of intimate relationship with the opposite sex outside of marriage is infidelity; finally - and surprisingly, given the slightly lower percentage - 40 per cent of respondents said that one night stands are cheating. The same trend continues at the city level. In Guwahati (62 per dent) and Mumbai (60 per cent) the condemning view of adultery continues; Hyderabad (40 per cent) and Bangalore (59 per cent) follow closely behind. Physical exclusivity will continue to be a requirement of Indian marriages moving forward. It’s not just what you do, it’s who you feel What has changed the most in terms of how emotional loyalty is judged today? Currently 40 per cent of Indian adults say that the emotional connection formed with someone else is also a form of infidelity. Among those living in cities that are beginning to grow rapidly, this is the most pronounced. Guwahati has 52 per cent, Patna has 44 per cent and Kolkata has 40 per cent of respondents indicating that developing an emotional bond with someone other than their spouse is considered a gross violation of the relationship of trust. Even in large metropolitan areas like Bengaluru (37 per cent) and Hyderabad (33 per cent), emotional betrayal is almost as harmful as physical betrayal. In 2026 marriage is no longer just about staying faithful through physical means, but rather the couple must also have the same emotional and mental fidelity. Your body is here, but your mind isn’t Nearly 39 per cent of adults in India believe there is also an act of infidelity when you are thinking of someone you personally know while having sexual relations with your spouse. This number increases significantly in cities like Mumbai (34 per cent), Guwahati (46 per cent), Kolkata (30 per cent), and Hyderabad (32 per cent); therefore, it is to be expected that many adults living in urban centres, intimacy between couples must include emotional and mental presence in addition to physical intimacy. Private thoughts, public guilt Publicly display your feelings of guilt by privately thinking about someone you know while masturbating. For example, approximately 31 per cent of Indian adults reported feeling that if a person is thinking of someone they personally know while they are masturbating represents infidelity. This belief is strongest in Ludhiana (40 per cent), Guwahati (37 per cent), and Mumbai (30 per cent), indicating that nowadays, many Indians expect loyalty not only in deeds but also in imagination. 2026 and infidelity within Indian marriages A survey by Gleeden and IPSOS on infidelity in Indian marriages has shown a shift toward deeper emotional and psychological intimacy between married partners. Sybil Shiddell, country manager of the app, says, “Married couples have also become more vulnerable to perceived betrayal. Infidelity, in 2026, is defined as more than just sexual contact with another person; it also includes who you emotionally rely on, who you fantasize about or think of sexually, and where your mind travels when feeling aroused. As such, married couples today must exhibit loyalty to one another not only through physical acts of fidelity, but also through attentiveness, fantasy, and emotional availability in their marriages.”
12 January,2026 11:53 AM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentThe year 2026 is going to be the year daters stop wondering "where things are going" and start making purpose-driven romantic decisions. According to a recent survey by Indian dating app QuackQuack, 37 per cent of daters from metros and suburbs are adopting the "sunset clause" in their dating life to ensure that their romantic pursuit does not aimlessly go on for ages. They want their dating app usage to be time-bound, bringing in a significant shift to a highly self-aware dating style. This new year, daters are protecting their time, energy, and emotional bandwidth over everything else. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "We are seeing users becoming more intentional in their choices; it started from 2024, but we are hoping for it to peak this year. The young daters have come a long way; they are doing regular check-ins to see if a match is just not going anywhere and changing things up based on deep introspection; they are looking for compatibility that isn't just values and hobbies. Career has become a significant factor in their compatibility. We are really glad to see the young daters take online dating from a casual fling spot to a platform for conscious and calculated dating." The survey was done among 7583 active users from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities between the ages of 22 and 35. Participants were selected from different professional and educational backgrounds for a comprehensive study of the upcoming trends. The sunset clause No more endless scrolling. Daters from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities shared that they are setting a clear timeline for their dating app usage, the most common being 6 months and 1 year, with some going for the "until I meet the right one". The sunset clause is trending in 2026 because dating is no longer just a background activity. Singles from across the country are looking for more outcome-based app usage instead of doom scrolling every day. Mindful exit plans are leading to faster and more meaningful matches, reported almost 28 per cent of the survey participants. Anjali (27) from Pune, said, "This year I have decided to try out online dating for six months; I think it will give me a sense of purpose, and the deadline would be good for someone like me who doom scrolls even on dating apps." Matching ambitions Love matters, but so do lifestyle and career choices. Over 41 per cent of daters in 2026 prioritise career rhythm, ambition matching, and work-life balance while looking for a partner. Vihaan, a 28 year old CA, said, "Career matching isn't about finding a partner in the same field; rather, it is about the same career goals, pace, and priorities. Say I am starting a business; I'd want a partner who understands the unpredictability that comes with it. In my case, I really want someone who understands how hectic my work can get, with long hours and working overtime. These things can eventually create issues in relationships." Retro compatibility Millennials above 30 years of age are looking for their future in the past. 3 in 5 millennial daters from Tier 1 and 2 cities are seen matching based on shared nostalgia: 90s and early 2000s music, pop culture, movies, similar childhood rituals, and having lived through almost similar phases of life growing up. Ankita (32) from Delhi, joked, "I bonded with a match over discussions on pre-social media dating, while chatting on a dating app. Also, it felt great that he got all my references without having to look them up." Connection reviews According to 18 per cent of women and 11 per cent of men between 25 and 35 years of age revealed that they borrowed a workplace habit and turned it into a dating practice: intentional check-ins on ongoing matches every few weeks. They check for communication gaps, connection rut, expectation vs reality, and emotional satisfaction. Ashish (29), working in Bengaluru, said, "It's better than dragging a dead connection or silently wondering if things are going to go the way I want them to be. I do an internal review in my mind, and I have even looped in my matches sometimes, asking them what they feel about the connection. Trust me, it has saved me a lot of time and energy on the wrong people."
09 January,2026 05:33 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentWho says modern dating is all about profile pictures and perfectly written bios? For GenZ, connections are built over more meaningful markers and small efforts.According to a new survey by Indian dating app, QuackQuack, 3 in 5 Gen-Z daters decide whether a connection stays shallow or steps into something real based on vulnerability level, response time, and more nuanced qualities. The online survey was conducted among 8567 GenZ daters aged between 18 and 26 from Metros and mid-tier Indian cities. Participants are active users of dating apps for at least 3 months. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Dating is now much more than physical appearance or coming off sorted. It's more meaningful and intentional. Especially when it comes to Gen-Z daters, they want to look deeper; today, even texting carries emotional weight: the tone, the pace, even how many emojis were used in a text matter. We are noticing that over the last year, small choices make a huge impact when it comes to Gen-Z dating style." Vulnerability is digital currencyThe survey says 41 per cent of daters between 22 and 26 shared that they feel more comfortable interacting when a match shows honest vulnerability. 7 in 10 respondents said that while they don't appreciate trauma dumping from the first chat, they are tired of emotional poker faces. Sharing about some quirky habit or admitting to having some flaw instantly makes a conversation more human and easy-flowing. It shows that the person is neither scared of being their authentic self nor will they expect their partner to act put-together at all times. Such conversations encourage a deeper connection from early on. Aisha (25) from Delhi said, "I don't like mysterious people who give a 'nobody knows me' vibe. Those over-polished or mystery-types don't work in today's day and age. People want to meet real people." Response time equals emotional feedbackOver 33 per cent of women and 25 per cent of Gen-Z men from Tier 1 and 2 cities revealed that matches with inconsistent response time make them feel less valued. The timing matters just as much as the quality of interaction; if both are not aligned, it is often interpreted as love bombing. Respondents explained that while a fast reply does not immediately mean genuine interest, disappearing mid-conversation without explanation almost always translates to unreliability and disinterest. For Gen-Z, timing reads as intention. Abrupt or delayed replies without context trigger negative assumptions, even if the reason is innocent. Long texts over lazy repliesThe survey further finds that 4 in 6 Gen-Z daters over 22 said they find a connection more smooth-flowing when the message length is mutual, not minimal. Longer messages are clingy is just another internet folklore, according to these daters. Aditi from Mumbai said, "Sending a long text doesn't make you look too available. What even is that? If anything, it makes you look interested and readable." Lastly, 17 per cent of participants called unbalanced effort the biggest disruptor of relationship rhythm. "One person pours their heart out, and the other replies with a 'K', how's that even fair?" asked Ruhani (25). She added, "If I write a thoughtfully witty text and get a lol, I mentally unmatch immediately. It's not just about the number of words; it's the intent."
30 December,2025 04:32 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentAs 2025 comes to a close, daters across India are busy reviewing their love lives. Indian dating app, QuackQuack, reports seeing noticeable shifts in user behavior as they re-evaluate their choices, dissect old conversations, and slightly panic about walking into another new year without a plus one. The app shares that this sudden romance audit is reshaping the way people match, chat, and commit. The year-end survey was conducted among 9746 users from Tier 1, 2, and 3 Indian cities, among active dating app users between the ages of 22 and 35.The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "This December, dating is suddenly far less casual and far more reflective; we see this swift shift every year. The new year approaching sparks some sense of urgency, but we are glad to see that young daters are still making intentional choices. Moreover, we are noticing that people don't want more matches; they want the right one. Users are reflecting on their own dating patterns, questioning their past choices, and surely raising their own standards." Resolutionary datingNot just gym memberships, dating resolutions also skyrocket as the new year rolls in. Almost 44 per cent of daters between 22 and 28 admitted to rethinking the dating choices they made in the past, and three in five daters say they no longer want to settle for less. The trend has led to a resolutionary dating style, where users are focusing on more conscious matches. They have stopped entertaining low-effort connections and started reflecting on their true desires in a relationship, instead of blindly following what looks good on paper. "Consistency", "worth my effort", "emotionally available" are some of the phrases gaining popularity in user bios as daters welcome 2026. Chat autopsyYear-end brings with it some overthinking along with reflection and introspection. 3 in 5 daters from Tier 1 and 2 cities disclosed revisiting old chats to see where things went wrong or pinpoint the flaw in them for better conversational skills on their next try. This trend is more commonly seen among daters who experienced sudden ghosting, almost-relationships, and unintentional situationships. Advait (26) from Pune, said, "I went back to all the chats with matches that didn't work out, and dissected every haha, and every dry reply. It helped me recognise certain things about myself, and in some cases, I realised that the match was not compatible to begin with; I was just desperate to make it work." The plus one panicThe end of the year doubles up as the busiest wedding season, creating a slight panic among the singles who are bound to hear the almost ominous, "You are next." 27 per cent of women and 31 per cent of men above 26 shared feeling increased dating anxiety during this period; some confessed to going back to old matches only to understand that they didn't work out for a reason. The report said 18 per cent of daters disclosed fast-tracking some conversations to make one match land, but the rush has never ended well for most of them. However, 2 in 5 matches above 30 claimed that the panic is not always a bad thing; some explained that it has made them bolder in terms of approaching matches and even being more honest about their expectations with quicker disclosure of non-negotiables. Panic has also led to some form of clarity for many daters.
30 December,2025 03:22 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentFor a long time, second marriages have carried a quiet weight of misplaced judgment but a new survey has revealed that the narrative is slowly changing. The new generation is breaking the long-standing taboo around remarriages. Over 28 per cent of the survey participants openly shared that they are interested in starting over after their divorce, not letting a marriage that ended define the rest of their lives. The study by Indian matchmaking app Rebounce for divorced, separated, and widowed singles, was conducted from mid-November to mid-December among 5837 daters who were previously married. Participants ranged in age from 28 to 50 and were selected from both metropolitan areas and smaller cities. Rebounce's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Remarriages in India were seen as a compromise. But the shift that's happening now is eye-opening. Remarriages were never about replacement or 'just finding a companion for old age'. It is literally about finding the love these individuals deserved, a love that is healthier, more peaceful, and compatible." Women are leading the shiftSurvey shows that over 35 per cent of divorced women from Tier-1 cities find matchmaking apps dedicated to second chances more useful and comfortable while giving love another shot. Akriti (35) from Bengaluru, said, "When I finally decided to move on after my divorce, apps were so much more reliable than relying on people to find me the right partner. I had complete control of what kind of partner I would attract. That's something that helped me find someone interested in me despite all I have been through." Survey data also indicates that while women face more challenges, they are still emotionally clearer in their expectations during their journey of remarriage than men. Men want emotional compatibilityDivorced and separated men between 30 and 40 years disclosed that their biggest fear was not just societal judgment and rejection; it was falling back into the old pattern. 3 in 5 men ready for remarriage shared they now look for emotional compatibility, and prefer discussing goals and emotional alignment before committing. Among men, 21 per cent shared they still struggle with vulnerability owing to the failed first marriage, but matchmaking platforms designed specially for divorcees have helped them open up their vulnerable side to someone who not only understands it but has been through the same. Metros and suburbsThe survey shows that the shift in mindset is more visible in Tier-1 cities, like Delhi, Mumbai, Bengaluru, Hyderabad, where there's a growing acceptance and openness towards remarriages, while Tier-2 cities are still struggling under family and societal pressure, though much less than a decade back. Vasu, a 38 year old doctor from Bengaluru, said, "I won't say there's no stigma at all here in the metros, but yes, we care less about what people think. For me, finding the happiness that I know I deserve is more important than looking like a saint in society's eyes. I guess that's a privilege of living in a Tier 1 city." Second chances mean clearer intentionsFor many daters in Tier 1 and Tier 2 cities, love the second time around feels noticeably different. They’re entering relationships with far more clarity than they did in their first marriage. This time, boundaries matter; 3 in 4 daters actively prioritise them. There's a visible shift in expectations: about 41 per cent of respondents disclosed that they are no longer looking for someone who completes them; rather, they are seeking a partner who complements their goals, values, and personality. Priya (36) from Delhi commented, "I am not going to jump into something blindly anymore. I value my experience too much to make uninformed and rushed decisions. I believe that's what's unique about a second marriage. It's so much more grounded, mature, and overall starts on a stronger footing."
16 December,2025 02:01 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentToday's couples are entering a relationship period like never before with regard to emotional flexibility, new types of technology distractions that take precedence over traditional forms of communicating like phone calls and e-mails, shifting priorities when it comes to work, families, and what makes them happy. All these changes combined with finding deeper meaning in life has resulted in enormous growth in the way couples define and expect from each other. The latest Gleeden x IPSOS survey, which surveyed 1,510 adults from Tier 1 cities such as New Delhi, Mumbai, Bengaluru, Hyderabad, Ahmedabad, and Kolkata, along with adults from smaller tier 2 cities such as Jaipur, Ludhiana, Patna, Kochi, Guwahati, and Indore, provides an insightful overview of how relationships will be formed and function in 2025. Here are the top 5 trends of 2025: Couples will redesign their relationships While love and companionship remain important, couples today are open to developing new ways to bond and build memories. An overwhelming percentage of survey participants (52% in tier 1 cities & 54% in tier 2 cities) stated they are comfortable having sexual encounters with others besides their primary partner. Additionally, cities such as Mumbai (60 per cent), Indore (62 per cent), Kolkata (59 per cent), New Delhi (56 per cent) and Bangalore (40 per cent) demonstrated varying degrees of openness to this possibility. The transition of urban couples toward being more emotionally transparent is reflective of a new paradigm shift regarding monogamy. Rather than viewing monogamy as an expectation imposed on a couple, urban couples are starting to think of their relationships as something they choose and create together through negotiation. In other words, the exclusivity of a relationship can no longer simply be assumed; instead it must now be negotiated together by both partners. Emotional affairs go mainstreamWhile couples are exploring physical boundaries within their relationships, they are now also exploring emotional boundaries. In fact, the results of a survey have shown that 37 per cent of respondents from Tier 1 cities and 43 per cent from Tier 2 cities have established emotional connections with individuals outside of their primary relationship. Some cities with the highest levels of emotional involvement include Guwahati (52 per cent), Hyderabad (44 per cent), and Kolkata (42 per cent), while even metropolitan areas like Delhi (38 per cent) and Mumbai (37 per cent) indicate an increase in emotional involvement. The fact that emotional relationships are now functioning as parallel support systems for couples to provide guidance, support, understanding, and validation is noteworthy. For example, in cities such as Bangalore and Mumbai, where there are very high rates of stress and extremely fast-paced lifestyles, many couples are finding ways to fill that gap through the companionship of other people emotionally. In most cases, these couples are not necessarily looking to end their existing relationships; instead, they are looking to fulfil their emotional needs in ways they do not typically define as “infidelity” or “cheating” but rather as “connecting with another person". A space for fantasies If the secret sanctuary for relationships in 2025 is not to be found at home, then it is probably in the realm of fantasy. It appears that almost 40 per cent of respondents in both Tier-1 and Tier-2 areas have admitted to thinking about someone they know while sexually intimate or during masturbation. The cities showing the strongest indication of this trend include (in order): Hyderabad (50 per cent), Mumbai (46 per cent), Indore (46 per cent), and comparatively lower participants in Kochi (32 per cent) and Delhi (40 per cent). Fantasy has moved away from being viewed as an act of infidelity, to being thought of as a way of playing out the individual’s mental landscape of excitement, novelty, or escapist fantasy. More and more couples de-stigmatise their fantasies and regard them as mental play and understand that the use of one’s imagination does not equate to being unfaithful, but that these imaginative experiences are usually regarded as psychological play. Flirting as emotional air conditioning Flirting can now be defined as a way to relieve tension from the relationship and/or an emotional outlet; flirting has gone from a taboo to an emotional outlet from relationships. Survey responses indicate that 44 per cent of respondents in Tier-2 and 39 per cent in Tier-1 reported that they engaged in online flirting. Cities with high percentages of online flirting include Guwahati (54 per cent), Bengaluru (38 per cent), Kolkata (38 per cent), and Kochi (38 per cent). Flirting in real life shows similar percentages with 42 per cent of respondents in Tier-2 and 35 per cent in Tier-1, with Indore, Jaipur, and Ludhiana being particularly high in participants. Today, flirting may not have the same stigma as previously, as it is often a way of being acknowledged and seen by others. In metropolitan areas like Delhi and Mumbai, it is common for individuals to experience stress and burnout from their jobs, and with little time for their intimate relationships, they use flirting as a “refresher” or emotional release. More couples realise that flirting can be an uplifting experience, boosting their self-esteem and creating light-heartedness, not necessarily acting as infidelity. One-night curiosity goes urbanAbout 40 per cent of couples in Tier 1 cities and 40 per cent in Tier 2 cities reported that they may consider having a "one-night stand". However, what does this mean? Based on the findings of this survey, there is clearly more acceptance surrounding the idea of a "one-night stand" than ever before. Some of the cities with the highest percentage of acceptance were: Indore (51 per cent), Kolkata (47 per cent) and Mumbai (42 per cent). Even cities that have traditionally been viewed as conservative, like Jaipur (40 per cent) and Kochi (34 per cent), have a demonstrated increase in acceptance of these types of encounters. What could the future of modern relationships be like? Sybil Shiddell, who is the country manager of Gleeden India says, “The modern couple will find ways to be truthful with each other about themselves, their desires and their relationships. The 2025 couple will rely on truth, communication and personal autonomy as their cornerstones. The results of the survey indicate that as a society, India is prepared to openly discuss their emotional needs, desires, and realities of being in long-term, committed relationships. As a relationship evolves over time, it continues to be built on honesty and very often, it will include elements of openness and a willingness to try new things. What this tells us about the couples of today is that they don't want to be pressured to conform to how society thinks they should behave; rather, they want to be connected to what they really are.”
10 December,2025 04:25 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentGen-Z values everything that is a mix of irony and authenticity, and it's no surprise that they follow the same pattern in dating as well. The latest trend, Reverse Psychology, backs up the theory better than anything else. In a dating trend study by Indian dating app QuackQuack, 22 per cent of Gen-Z daters explained how they flirt today, not by saying exactly what they feel, but by making it more fun and authentic by strategically saying quite the opposite. Make no mistake, there's no manipulation involved in the trend. It creates a self-aware, low-pressure, and more organic setup for interactions to flow. The survey was conducted at the beginning of December to understand the emerging new trends among users aged 18 to 26. Participants were selected from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities and from various educational and professional fields for a more comprehensive insight into the new trends. Every 3 in 5 respondents explained that the Reverse Psychology trend is rooted in an emotionally cautious self-protective communication style. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "We are seeing the new generation break years of manipulative techniques and repurposing them into soft romance that not only gets the job done but also protects their hearts. This generation believes in kindness, and it reflects in the dating trends gaining popularity among the Gen-Zs." The Anti-Compliment28 per cent of daters from Tier 1 and 2 cities revealed Anti-Compliment as the latest flirting style. Gen-Zs being a fan of sarcasm, the trend encourages people to express their interest in a more playful and mildly sarcastic manner. Raghav (23) from Pune explained, "So instead of saying, 'Whoa, you are so funny,' we say, 'Stop being so funny. I am trying hard not to fall for you.' It's complimenting, plus expressing my intention, but at the same time, none of it is direct, so the other person can't blatantly reject you and break your heart. If they don't feel the same way, they will give subtle signs." Don't say it, give a hintGen-Z daters have been very expressive about how they feel, but on the verge of the new year, they are choosing to express themselves through hints rather than loud words for a quick "vibe check" and gauging compatibility at an early stage. The survey shows that about 19 per cent of women and 15 per cent of men between 22 and 26 are using indirect lines and implications to communicate their intentions. They shared that it serves as a soft invitation. It's a proactive measure to stop directly stating intentions and putting their match in an uncomfortable situation in case they don't reciprocate the same feelings. 26-year-old Anwika said, "I often say 'some people are worth the risk' to matches I like. It's got a dual purpose. On the one hand, I am hinting that they are worth it for me, and on the other, I am encouraging them by meaning that I am absolutely worth the risk. If the match is actually interested, they will pick up the hint. And, honestly, if someone doesn't get something this simple, I might not want to date them." Humour masked interestHumour has always been the core part of Gen-Z communication, and now it has become a part of their dating technique as well. Every 4 in 5 users between 20 and 26 years of age disclosed that they sometimes intentionally mask serious feelings with humour. They say it helps keep them relaxed, and it also offers a safe exit door if the match doesn't show the same interest. Ahaan, 25 year old engineer from Hyderabad, said, "I use humour while flirting all the time. It keeps things light, helps me check my match's comfort level, and if things go south, I can just say 'I was joking' and not lose the friendship as well."
09 December,2025 05:45 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentADVERTISEMENT
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