Dad and I make the same mistake with the maid

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We've been sleeping together since. She blackmails me and asks for money and also robs things around our house. She has always blackmailed me into silence. Now, she is pregnant and I think I may be falling for her.
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But then, I also find out that she has also been sleeping with my dad. Even so, I think I love her. What should I do?

Vicky

Dear Vicky,

Needless to say, you've got yourself into a mighty big mess here. The maid could be put away (despite her pregnancy) for indulging in sexual intercourse with a minor (you).

Regardless of the fact that it could either be your father's child or yours, you are incapable of understanding what love is given your current circumstances.

You're confusing feelings of responsibility with love. It's not the same thing. Your father's role of permissiveness is as much to blame as your own promiscuity.

The two of you have got so intertwined in her lies and deceit that by the time you understand what you're in for, she'll already put you guys into plenty trouble.

If she threatens you one more time, know that the law is on your side, regardless who initiated the affair. That doesn't let you off the hook though.

Am scared she'll say no

Dear Diana,

I work in an international call center. I'm in love with a colleague. I don't know anything about her nor does she know about me.

I haven't told her anything just as yet. Don't know why... maybe I'm scared she'll refuse me. What should I do?

Rohit

Dear Rohit,

Understand this, people just don't imagine that there's a soulmate out there for them. They make sure that soulmate walks right into their arms.

Regardless of circumstances and consequences, they find that person and tell them what's in their heart. If you're too late, you'll lose out without having ever known if she loved you back. What's worse?

It's a vicious circle...

Dear Diana,

I'm a 22-year-old guy. I love an 18-year-old gal. I told her that I love her but she said she doesn't want any relationships as she loves somebody else who has refused her for many times (and is still waiting for him).

We live in separate cities. We talk for about an hour everyday. She says she misses me, that she likes meu2026 we exchange kisses over the phone, but she's adamant about not being my girlfriend. I don't want to lose her!

Dennis

Dear Dennis,

She's being stupid and bullheaded about this whole thing. As are you. She's refusing you for someone who has said no to her several times over.

You're refusing a potential future with someone who might actually love you back in the hope that she sees reason someday. That's very silly. If she wants to be jilted, fine! Why are you being such an idiot?

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