Stories of women in The Bible who took tough decisions
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Stories of women in The Bible who took tough decisions
Another general who tormented Israel was one Holoferens, who served Nebuchadnazer, king of Assyria. A woman called Judith decided to do something about the situation, annoyed that her countrymen lacked the courage to fight back.u00a0 She went with her maid and befriended the enemy general and slowly ingratiated herself on him promising information on Israelis. Gaining his trust, she was allowed access to his tent one night while he lay in a drunken stupor. Finding him alone there, she raised a sword and decapitated him and took his head back to her city. The Assyrians having lost their leader dispersed and Israel was saved. Judith was the great heroine; everybody cheered her and many men courted her, but she remain unmarried for rest of her life. Tamar was the daughter-in-law of Judah. She was married to his eldest son Er. Er died without giving her a child.u00a0 By ancient Hebrew law, Judah was obliged to give her widowed daughter-in-law another husband.u00a0 So Judah told his younger son Onan to marry her. Unfortunately, even Onan died without giving Tamar a child.u00a0
Judah was obliged to give his third son as her husband. The third son's name was Shelah, but he was too young to be her husband. Judah told Tamar that she should go back to her father's house and when her younger son was old enough to be her husband, he would send for her. Tamar suspected that this was a ploy to keep her away from the house and that Judah believed Tamar was a jinx somehow responsible for the death of his sons. A few years later, news reached Judah that Tamar was pregnant. He accused her of adultery and it was then Tamar asked him to show his ancestral staff. Judah said, "I lost my staff a few months ago," and Tamar said, "Yes, I know you lost your staff at the house of the prostitute you visited at the gates of the city of Dan". This was told in public and Judah did not know how to respond.u00a0 Holding Judah's staff aloft, Tamar revealed that the prostitute he visited was none other than her. She had discarded her widow's robe, dressed like a prostitute, covered her face with veil and had intercourse with him so that she could bear a child. That was the only way she could prove, without being unfaithful to the house of Judah, that she was fertile and not responsible either for the absence of children or death of her husbands. Judah had no choice but to accept Tamar back into his household and give her child legitimate rights. The descendant of Tamar's son eventually was known as David, the great king of Hebrews.u00a0u00a0
When Naomi's two sons died, she told her widowed daughters-in-law, Oprah and Ruth, to go back to their father's house, for they had borne no children and so had no obligations to their husband's household. Oprah left, blaming God for her misfortune, but Ruth stayed back, expressing her affection and loyalty thus: "Where you go I go, where you lodge I lodge, your people shall be my people, your God shall be my God, where you die I will die and there I will be buried." Naomi and Ruth were destitute but resourceful; they decided to sustain themselves by gleaning. Gleaning was a form of charity for the disadvantaged in ancient Israel; the poor could walk behind the harvesters picking up what was left. The field that they went to was that of a man called Boas, a rich relative of Naomi.u00a0u00a0 He was single and childless. One day Boas came to the field to oversee how the harvest was going on and he saw Ruth.u00a0 It was love at first sight. He went out of his way to help Ruth and to protect her from the young men who also noticed how beautiful she was.
When Naomi realised that Boas was showing interest, she gave Ruth specific instructions on what to do, for she knew something about men. She advised Ruth to perfume herself and wait for Boas on the threshing floor after he had eaten a good meal, for a man with full stomach was easier to handle. When Boas finally laid down to sleep. Ruth approached him and lay beside him and suggested, because he was a relative of her dead husband, he should cover her with his blanket a euphemismu00a0 for marriage. Boas agreed and as expected the two got married and in time Ruth gave birth to a Son called Obed, who was to be the great grandfather of David, the great king of Israel. Naomi, who had lost her husband and two sons, now had a grandson who lay upon her bosom. She thus became his nurse and lived happily.
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