I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 25. We have been going out for six months. He says it is time that I get in bed with him. I don't want to as I am not really ready for it yet. Holding hands, hugging and kissing is okay but beyond that I have my reservations at this stage of our relationship. How do I tell him I don't want to without hurting him? Will it upset him?
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If he really loves you, he will understand and respect your sentiments. Just tell him you don't want to do it and that you are not comfortable about it. I am sure this is not going to hurt his feelings. If he still insists, you will have to explain why you feel in such a manner. Tell him you are not yet ready for it yet.