There is this guy that I work with two days a week
Dear Diana,
There is this guy that I work with two days a week. He's married. We exchanged numbers with regard to work. He started texting me and we kept in touch for a few days. I saw him at work three days later and we were really flirty. He has sent me loads of texts during work hours, and stops texting as soon as he finishes work.
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I was with him at work yesterday, I went out for my lunch and he texts me saying he was lonely eating his lunch, so I came back and sat with him, but all we did was just chat and stuff. He has texted me every day for two weeks, and I've replied. Nothing has happened between us.
We haven't even touched each other. He knows I like him but I know that he's married and I dont want to get involved that way and ruin his marriage. But I do like him and he's great to be around. We get on so well and have so much in common. I'm very confused I don't know what to make of it? Advice please?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
You made a friend at work and he is married. If you want to hang out with him, engage him in conversation about his family, wife kids etc. It's a crush. It happens to all of us. Make new friends at work, preferably ones that are unattached! But if at all possible try not to have a relationship at work. They can be messy if one or both parties can't handle it.
You say you don't want to "get involved that way and ruin his marriage." Well then don't! It's as simple as that. I am sure all this attention is flattering but this guy most assuredly wants to get in your pants. And if that happens you'll get way more attention than you ever bargained foru00a0- from his current wife when she finds out.
Also this sort of carrying on at work will surly sully your reputation. Do you want that? Walk to the nearest exit and stop fooling around with married men. Put your self in his wife's shoes. How would you like it? You wouldn't.
Why does love hurt?
Dear Diana,
Why is it that even if you and the person you are are in love with are together, why does it still hurt? I just try to figure it out but I can't. I know he loves me. but why do we go through all the things we do ?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Love is like this horrible feeling of anxiety for most people most of the time. Can it really be called love if it hurts? I think that 'real' love is what people share when they have been together for years together and are companions both emotionally and mentally.
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