I recently broke up with my BF because I felt he was flirting with his crush, who, by the way, is less pretty, smart, talented and appealing than I am.
Dear Diana,
I recently broke up with my BF because I felt he was flirting with his crush, who, by the way, is less pretty, smart, talented and appealing than I am. So I'd get really mad whenever I'd think about the two of them together. I saw pictures of them talking or sitting next to each other, candid shots taken by some of our friends on Facebook. He told me he was just being friendly, but I still got mad saying he had always known how I felt about the two of them yet he continued to "be friendly" with her.
I also claimed, that by doing so, he showed just how irrelevant my feelings were to him. He said I was being too jealous. Was I? We broke up last April. Not too long after that, he planned to hang out with her one entire day. They were together for hours. Why did he take her out if they were only friends? I have heard they even went for a movie. I know I will NEVER find peace until I've avenged myself, but for now, I'm heart-broken. Any advice?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
I doubt he was simply being friendly. There had to be more than met the eye. As his girlfriend, you had every right to share your insecurities and concerns and he should have understood why you weren't simply jealous but also afraid of losing him. If he was interested in the other girl, he should have been more honest and upfront about it. Keeping you guessing about the status of your relationship isn't fair.
Of course, now that you have broken up, it would be best for everyone concerned to put it behind them. He doesn't look like he's going to apologise. Your vengeance would get you nothing except temporary satisfaction. You will never find peace by taking revenge in some way for the simple reason that it will be a back-and-forth of bickering, insults and other such things.
I'm quite small down there!
Dear Diana,
I am a 25-year-old singleton. My penis is quite small and this is really frustrating. I keep thinking how other guys have bigger members (and therefore better sex). is there any treatment to increase the size?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Stop making yourself miserable over something that really isn't within your control. Bigger size doesn't automatically translate into better sex. Also, several penis enlargement treatments are available but there's no way to really ascertain the efficacy. Visit an andrologist for further consultation.
I can't forget my first love...
Dear Diana,
We were in a relationship for 17 months. We met seven times in that time. She was even there for my brother's wedding. My family has accepted her. Out of the blue, on September 3 last year, she suddenly told me that her parents had fixed her marriage elsewhere and that she is going ahead with it for the sake of her parents. Now, even my parents had fixed my marriage to a girl who's 17 now. We marry next year (I will be 28 then). But I can't forget my first love and doubt I will be able to keep my to-be bride happy!
Sarvesh
Dear Sarvesh,
She may have had her reasons. And you have to respect that. The more pertinent question is: had she told her parents about your existence? If she had, why did they change their minds at the last moment? Is caste difference a hurdle or is it a financial chasm that's coming in the way? Also, your fianc ufffde is 17 and you're due to wed her next year. You're ten years older.
Would you be compatible? I doubt it. But I'm just saying that because I doubt you two have had a chance to get to know each other. Obviously you haven't got over your first love though she seems to have. Move on and start anew, would be my advice.
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