A year ago, my girlfriend ended our relationship after two years
Dear Diana,
A year ago, my girlfriend ended our relationship after two years. I was certain that she was meeting someone else but could never prove itu00a0-- she says that she wasntu00a0-- but a couple of days later I spoke to her and she said to leave her alone as she was in a relationship. I spent the next few days acting like an idiot trying to convince her it was the wrong decision.
Eventually I sent her an email saying it was the right decsion and that I wished her well and wouldn't contact her again. After her a few months she contact me by email -- she chatted and then went really cold on me then disappearedu00a0-- this has continued since then.
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Every few months she will send an email, always the same hi hw are you - then disappearsu00a0-- at the end of the year she arranged to meet me to give me some of my old stuff backu00a0-- prior to meeting she was all chattyu00a0-- but when we met nothing. I sent her an email saying its not right the way she treats me - and for her to not contact me again.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
You should continue to ignore her. You said you wanted no further contact. There is no need to contact her to re-state a point you both understand. Block her emails everywhere, so they just bounce back. She is unreliable and I think uninterested in you. It's almost like you are a backup when she is feeling down... but the crap thing is, that she soon forgets about you and then you feel down. When you decline her she tries harderu00a0-- she probably wants that confirmation that you still would stop everything to be with her, or to at least talk to her. Honestly you can keep this going for another 5years, but don't bother.
Just let her go. If she was really interested, she would have met you on these occasions, you know that. It's not good enough behaviour, from an ex, let alone a friend. Besides, you already said you would ignore her, so no need for another email saying that. Just do it. Delete her information and block her. She likes playing with you for a little bit of fun. Don't give her the satisfaction.
He wants sex. I ain't ready for it!
Dear Diana,
I'm 16. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me and I keep telling him I am not ready. Even so, he keeps asking.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Tell him you are not ready again, and make it clear you will not be bullied by him. If he says it once more after that, then he just wants you for sex and nothing else, so you'd be better off ending it with him. Never allow yourself to be bullied or used.
Want revenge on my cheating wife
Dear Diana,
I caught my wife cheating like 13 years ago. A couple of months ago, I found out she was still cheating on me with the same guy. I confronted her and she walked out to live with him. She kept the kids with her. I'm still going to try and get custody. Even though I'm her husband, in a way I have become the other man. I don't know if I want my wife back but I just felt like having sweet revenge. I'm in desperate need of advice.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Your best revenge is to get a better life, one without the cheating wife. Don't settle for being second best and that is the best form of revenge. Walk away from the whole sorry mess and just think about the children for the time being. Things must be very confusing for them.
Unless you want to be coping with a bunch of messed-up kids down the line, file for divorce, citing her adultery and request custody of your children. Provide them with a stable home and rebuild your life with standards that your children can aspire to.
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