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Dear Diana,
I lived abroad for a few years. During my last two years there, I met a European girl and fell in love. Due to religious differences and fear of my parents, I could not marry her and came back to India.
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It's been more than a year now. Our relationship was quite like that of a husband and wife.
I miss her every moment and feel like running away from home, I even wrote to her recently that I will marry her irrespective of the religious differences but she seemed to be very hurt and did not respond to my mail.
I do not feel like living without her, I love her very much, please advise what do I do? Should I go to Europe to see her personally? I do not even know where she is right now. I want her back anyhow...
CS Jadore
Dear Friend,
A moment of weakness on your part cost you the love of your life. You didn't even think she was worth the battle with your parents.
What kind of a lover are you? You could have tried! If you were living-in anyway, wasn't it curt on your part to dump her when she needed you to be strong for her. What's the use of summoning up the courage now after it's way too late.
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If you're not already back in Europe seeking her out, on your knees, begging her to return home with you, I seriously don't think you deserve her.
You don't need someone to tell you what you should do when you break someone's heart. The first impulse is usually the correct one for you.
He's a cleanliness freak... I am not!
Dear Diana,
My husband is a cleanliness freak and I really just don't care. I really can't find the motivation to clean the house. I want to, but when he messes it up hours later, I just don't want to do it anymore.
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I don't know what to do. All this is seriously affecting our marriage. I really, really need to find some way to keep myself motivated to do this for myself and for him.
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
You're not his servant. If he messes up the place, HE ought to clean up after himself. That's not your job. Also just because you are the woman of the house, doesn't mean it is your problem.
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It's easy to preach, but way difficult to practise what one preaches. Motivation has nothing to do with it. Don't do it if you don't want to.
He's just trying to be in charge. If he's really that bothered about the mess he creates, he'll get rid of it himself.
Don't succumb just because it is the easy way out. Stand strong and fight him because he is being selfish about it.
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