I am in love with the wrong girl, I think... While my girlfriend is quite beautiful, she's also very popular.
She can have guy friends, but I can't have gal friends? Illustration/ Satish Acharya
Dear Diana,
I am in love with the wrong girl, I think... While my girlfriend is quite beautiful, she's also very popular. She has several guy friends whom she spends time with. She says they're only friends. That she loves only me. But she kisses them on the cheeks and that drives me jealous. Also she doesn't like me even talking to other girls. Does she love me or not?u00a0 And isn't her behaviour hypocritical and unfair? She can do what she wants... Not me?
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
That's so not fair. You have to 'endure' that she has guy friends she is physically close to and expect you to believe that there's nothing brewing, but you can't so much as look in the direction of another girl!! Not done. She's being very selfish. I think you ought to tell her that you'll listen to her if she stops meeting these guy friends, in any case you're committed to her, so why worry. You're only asking that she understand that you can have friends of the opposite sex, too. Don't back down on this.
How do I get him interested in me?
Dear Diana,
I like this one guy. He's in the same college as me but in a senior year. I like him but want him to make the first move. How do I show him that I'm interested and would like to go out with him sometime?
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Meher
Dear Meher,
If you have common friends, get them to introduce you and help you get to know each other. See if he's open to the idea of being in a relationship with a girl younger than him.u00a0 Spend time with him as a friend. In time, he will make the first move. Don't wait too long, though.
He's my on-off boyfriend...
Dear Diana,
I have been in a relationship for the past six years. He cheated me three years back. After that, I gave him a second chance as he told me he was very sorry. Three years later, he wasn't so sure about us, so he broke it off. It has been three months since and he wants to come back again and get married to me. Should I trust him now? He seems genuine...
Name withheld
Dear Friend,
Are you a glutton for punishment? Why do you keep running back to get hurt again and again? If he wasn't sure, why keep coming back to you? I don't think you ought to trust him. He's lost that privilege a long while ago. Don't be dependent on the love of a man you cannot even trust to be true to you. Don't turn a blind eye to the fact that he is the one running around while you wait and pine for him. Don't make this a one-way love affair.
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