I am a bachelor in love with a married woman who has two kids, one in Std 2 and the other in Std 9...
She's still hanging on in a sham of a marriage...
Dear Diana,
I am a bachelor in love with a married woman who has two kids, one in Std 2 and the other in Std 9. They know me well. We've been in love for 12 years now and she doesn't have any relationship with her husband but stays with him even though she was forced into marriage. We want to live together now but wonder if her children will agree. My folks know her well but not that she is married. How do I convince everyone concerned?
Abe
Dear Abe,
Why did you wait 12 years to get back together? If she was unhappy being married to her husband early on (it being a forced affair and all), shouldn't you have thought of getting back together much earlier? Why is she still staying with her husband at all? For the sake of the children? Why did she have the children in the first place? Think first about how this is going to go down with your folks. And then, worry about how her children are going to take it after the divorce.
Why try again?
Dear Diana,
My father thinks I am a good-for-nothing. I failed my exams earlier this year and haven't even applied for re-examinations. This is my third attempt. I don't see the point in trying again.
Name withheld on request
Dear Friend,
If you give up now, you will prove him right. Is that what you wanna do? Try one more time. How would it hurt? This time, don't do it for your dad but rather for yourself. You may fail again but at least you'll know where you're going wrong.
I want to detach from her!
Dear Diana,
I like/love this girl becauseu00a0 she has better qualities than me. I saw her with one person which gave me a big shock but at the same time she had also seen me getting that shock. Recently I found that someone had proposed to her back in 2006 on Orkut. She is still single and stays with some girls in a flat. I was almost successful twice in getting out from her attachment but on both the times I saw her in my dreams and again fell back in her attachment. What to do to get out from her attachment as the dreams are destroying all my efforts?
Ritesh
Dear Ritesh,
Ok, I think your mind's taking you in ten different directions at the same time. You love her because she better than you but are willing to be detached from her (and succeeded twice?) but your dreams are stopping you?? She was proposed to in 2006 on a social networking site and you even saw her recently with someone and this shocked you. But she is single. So, what I am asking you is this: what seems to be the problem? She isn't seeing anyone at the moment. There's no reason why you should avoid her at this given point in time. Why do random incidents shock you. This is all too silly. And yeah, the most spaced out line there is your 'dreams are destroying'u00a0 your 'efforts'. Wake up and smell the coffee, dude!u00a0
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