These days, he gets easily frustrated. He blames his tension on work. We are in a serious relationship and both our parents know we are together. Will we be able to get married?
— Sarah

Dear Sarah,
It takes two to make a relationship work. If two years of togetherness doesn’t allow you to work out your problems, two years more won’t do the trick. Everybody has work tension. We all deal with it differently. But the bottomline is, we do. You always knew you two belong to different castes, Unless the two of you find a solution to the problem together, no one else can help. Work it out.

Diana will solve it!
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