'My fiancee keeps checking my e-mail inbox'

Feb 14, 2013, 00:37 IST | Dear Diana

Dear Diana, I'm engaged to this girl from our community and we have been going out for a while. She's a nice girl and we are compatible with each other.

I’m absolutely sure that she’ll make a great wife and a lovely daughter-in-law. However, I don’t understand her trust issues. She keeps checking my laptop and logs in to check my emails. I think she has some doubts about my credibility as a honest guy. Or am I overreacting here? What to do?
— Sambhav

Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Sambhav,
You are not over-reacting, you deserve your privacy. She may be your fiancee but she has no business logging into your emails. You may have given her your email ID password because you have nothing to hide from her. But your girl is so damn insecure about you. As she is of suspicious nature, she is keeping a tab on every move you make. You need to tell her that suspicious minds can only cause misery in a relationship. There is no place for it if you want your marriage to survive. 

Diana will solve it!
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