Christmas is two weeks away and the markets in Mumbai never fail to set the Xmas vibe right. During this time of the year, the streets of the city look bright and straight out of a magical film. Additionally, the cool breeze of the winter season adds to the Christmas aesthetics. The decor items for Christmas arrive after the exit of Diwali and are put on sale sometime in mid-November. Catholics of Mumbai set their Christmas preparations in action about 10-15 days before the main day, to celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. Non-Christian Mumbaikars who love to celebrate the festival are also seen hitting these markets to get their hands on some bright, colourful and cute decor items. While some shop for items to decorate their homes, some look for miniatures to adorn their office desks. Kevin Baptista (28), a recruitment consultant residing in Vile Parle begins decorating his house 10 days before Christmas along with his family members. “Preparing for Christmas is as fun as celebrating it. I enjoy decorating my home with my family. It brings about a different sense of belonging and togetherness. We begin decorating the walls first with hanging decor like streamers, bells, and posters and keep the Christmas tree for last.” Kevin has already finished his shopping. This year, he purchased lights for Christmas trees, some baubles and streamers. “I usually shop from Crawford market as the items here are available at wholesale rates and hence, comparatively cheaper than the ones found anywhere else.” Shania Fernandes (23), a human resource professional also prefers shopping from Crawford market due to the good quality of the products available at affordable rates. She shares, “We usually start decorating our home four days before Christmas because my mother thinks dust accumulates if we start early. Shania loves every part of Christmas right from decorating the home to relishing Christmas treats together with the family. Christelle Rosario (26), a senior PR executive from Santacruz loves to shop for Christmas from Bandra or Christmas bazaars that are held in churches and Catholic gymkhanas. She says, “The decor around these sites is slightly higher priced, however, they are aesthetically quite pretty. In bazaars particularly, there are a few unique items such as Christmas-painted glass bottles or candles in the shape of a reindeer which elevate the Christmas look.” This year, Christelle bought a few wall-hanging decorations - bells, Santa and reindeer figurines, stars, as well as some Christmas tree decorations. “We are yet to hit the Christmas bazaars to see what new stuff they have come up with.” This Santacruz resident begins decorating her home a week in advance, starting with the house decor, then the tree and the crib. For her, the favourite part of Christmas is spending time with the family. “Decorating, making Christmas sweets, listening to carols builds a completely different feeling of togetherness that you don't get to experience any other time of the year. Additionally, the spread of food is something you can never miss out on.” For those Mumbaikars who are yet to shop for the festival and are looking for options outside Bandra, Mid-day Online curates a handy guide of such places in the city where one can find some of the best Christmas decor items. Crawford MarketAmong the many things the market is famous for from food to cosmetics, it is also known for its Christmas collection. If you wish to shop with a calm mind without chaos, afternoons would be the best time of the day since the place is usually crowded in the evening. One entire lane in the market is adorned with decor items leaving customers spoilt for choice. From a small snowflake-coated Christmas tree available at Rs 30 to a 10-foot huge tree available for Rs 7,000, this place has something for everyone. Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar Image One can find a star-shaped lantern, crib set, decorations for the tree, fancy Christmassy headbands, fairy lights, streamers, wreaths, baubles, bells, Santa socks, reindeer and much more at a variety of price range that depends on the size of each item. What makes this place unique is that it offers customers a chance to bargain and get the best deals. One of the sellers at the market, Nawaz (53) who has been selling Christmas decor for the past 16 years tells us, “At the market, we start selling Christmas material from mid-November onwards. For now, the sale is low but it will pick up as the festival approaches. Customers start shopping at least a week early. However, people shop till the very last day.” Nawaz is selling mini Christmas trees starting at just Rs 30. The crib set is also worth checking out with the smallest one starting at Rs 350 and the large one priced at Rs 5,500. Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar Gyzel Rodrigues, a Mira Road resident had come down to Crawford market along with her mother and a six-year-old daughter. While Gyzel and her mother were busy selecting a Christmas tree, the little munchkin was engaged in picking a Santa Claus for herself. With a coy smile on her face, the little one tells us, “I love playing with Santa and also helping mommy to decorate the tree.” Earlier Gyzel used to shop from Bandra however it is only recently that her family shifted to shopping from Crawford. “Here we have innumerable options to choose from and that too at much cheaper rates than Bandra.” Borivali West, IC Colony Mid-day Online’s next stop was Borivali where we found two stores in IC Colony situated right outside the IC Church. They offer myriad options to choose from. City Collection: Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar Ritik Patel(24) runs City Collection, that has been selling Christmas decor material for the past 18 years. Ritik enjoys customer loyalty from a majority of residents living in the area. He says, “I sell A-Z items related to Christmas. My customers will find everything they need in my store.” True to this, the store has organised a massive display of decor items at the entrance that is unmissable and lures one into making a purchase. At City Collection, you can buy a 1-foot tall tree for Rs 90 and a 20-foot tall tree for Rs 10,000. These prices can also vary depending on the quality and material used to make the product. Ritik says, “Since plastic is banned, most of the items are made using fibre with only a few made from plastic.” Sharing more details, he also says, “Since most of the products are manufactured in China or use materials produced in China, the sale of Christmas decor was meagre during the Covid-19 pandemic. However, post-pandemic, I have observed a hike in the sales of these items.” He also informs that each year there are about 50-60 new and unique designs that make it to the market while retaining the cultural essence of Christmas decor material. Choice Centre Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar Another store that shoppers can check out is Choice Centre which is located opposite City Collection. Its owner Janak Mauji Phatak began selling Christmas items some 20 years back. Besides selling trees and wreaths, the main attraction here are miniatures displayed in baskets. One can find mini drums, Santas, snow bells, stars, cherry leaves, disco balls, pinecones, snow bears, bows and much more starting at just Rs 10. Prices at both these stores are fixed. Malad West, Orlem Another neighbourhood in Mumbai’s Malad is Orlem. Quaint and peaceful, this locality mainly has Catholic residents. Orlem is also home to Our Lady of Lourdes Church surrounding which one can find stores selling Christmas delights. We spotted three stores which will offer you items you won’t find anywhere else. Fantasy Collection: Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar The variety of Christmas decor items is so huge at Fantasy Collection that they had to take an additional spot on rent to display their extensive spread of items. Stepping into this store will transport you to an ancient period. The inside of the store is stuffed with Christmas decor and miniatures that were exclusively spotted here. Ramu (30) who was managing the store says, “I have been working here for over 10 years. Each year I meet old customers and also see many new faces.” In his observation, people have cut down on shopping post-pandemic. “I guess people’s spending capacity has reduced after the pandemic and they prefer to shop less as compared to some five years back. Fir bhi log khareedte hai thoda bohot. Tyohar toh log manate hi hai, bhale kam kharche mai (Nevertheless people do buy a few items because after festival celebrations are a must.)” Jain Mobile and Gift Centre: Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar For those who don’t mind spending a tad bit extra and also wish to purchase Christmas-themed mugs, bottles, and other items can head to Jain Mobile and Gift Centre which has been selling Christmas items for the past seven years. Jayashree Jain, owner of the store says, “Orlem is a Christian locality, so we decided to sell Christmas items.” With an infectious smile and a friendly approach, Jayashree displays excitement to show customers the variety of items available for sale. A unique item at her store was a dancing Santa hat priced at Rs 950 that also has a voice-mimicry feature installed. When asked about the kind of demands she gets from customers, she smiles and says, “I find my Christian customers to be very simple and sweet. They don’t have any extravagant demands.” At the store, the starting price of a wreath is Rs 20 and Rs 30 for trees. According to her, the best time to shop at Orlem is in the evenings since all stores light up their shops to also display a variety of lighting on sale. A1 Collection: Photo Credits: Amogh Golatkar Established by Kamlesh Patel in 1988, A1 Collection is one of the oldest shops in the locality and is known for selling festive items. The store manager here tells us, “Besides the Catholic residents of Malad, we also have customers coming from across Mumbai, especially from Bandra, Vile Parle and Andheri.” Here too, one can find almost everything for the festival. Besides this, the store also sells unique lighting and showpieces which are worth buying if one wishes to elevate their home decor. The pricing of items here too fall within similar ranges of Rs 150 to Rs 10,000 depending on the item you purchase and its size.
23 December,2023 06:47 PM IST | Mumbai | Aakanksha Ahire
Andre Baptista has been living in Khotachiwadi for almost all his life. His ancestors: The East Indian were converted into Christianity by the Portuguese in the 16th and 17th centuries. Later, they were re-Indianised, so to speak, re-Sanskritised under the Maratha occupation. While they were undergoing this massive transformation, they suddenly found the English as their overlords. The colonial rulers sparked dense cultural evolution, owing to the history that transpired in the then-known Bombay, informs Baptista. “But speaking of Christmas as it's celebrated here, I don't know whether it bears any resemblance to the Latinised world. However, our customs would probably have more similarities with the English world, as the communities over here got anglicised in the early 20th century.” Khotachiwadi: The heritage village from South Mumbai is home to Portuguese-styled architecture endowed with colourful bungalows, guitar-playing locals and culinary traditions. With its old-world charm, the place has driven Baptista to appreciate the antiquities and the stories that narrate the bygone era. Consequently, he pursued archaeological studies and is now a lecturer and consultant in Archaeology, History and Cultural Heritage. In an exclusive conversation with Midday, he regales us over Christmas celebrations at Khotachiwadi. A medley of Christmas celebrations What was once primarily populated by East Indians, Pathare Prabhu and other communities is now graced with a mix of Roman Catholics, including Goans and Mangaloreans, informs Baptista. This communal pluralism has induced a medley of Christmas celebrations in the region. Even though the forms of expression are different, the standards remain a very typical Bombay practice. The residents put up Christmas trees and sweets are prepared a week or so before. Baptista’s and his neighbour’s houses stand decorated with wreaths, stockings, lights and candles. He recalls a memory from one of the Christmas celebrations at Khotachiwadi. “Midnight Mass is an ongoing tradition where families would go to the church just before midnight to attend service. And then, of course, there was always coming back home and finding those presents under the tree.” The festive season at Khotachiwadi is a blend of Westernised Christmas, commercialised Christmas, with the tradition of still going to the church for a service at midnight. Baptista reminisces that it used to be a very strong community space back in the 80s and the 90s. “So, we have had generations after generations residing here. And when the children grew up, they took the onus of organising Christmas festivals for other children in the area. So, one of them would dress up as Santa Claus, go around the lanes of the wadi singing carols and other children would follow them around.” The entire procession would culminate at the Catholic Club, where they would serve these little snack boxes with a little take away gift. This customary practice got the children, other residents and their cousins to unite at Khotachiwadi, shares Baptista. Another tradition revolves around the same youth, who would also go around on Christmas Eve to each house and sing carols that would be accompanied by the guitarist and choir members. However, life catches up and things have quieted down a lot, opines Baptista. People have moved out as the times went by and many of them don't find an opportunity to come back. Hence, the group of Carols (from the 90s) that numbered easily between 20-30 is now down to about five or six. The landscape of celebrations has changed overtime at Khotachiwadi, opine the locals. Why did Black stop playing Santa Claus? Willy Black (65) holds up a newspaper cutting that says: “The Santa Next Door.” He recalls the days of yore when he would dress up as Santa Claus and go around Khotachiwadi. “I was a rage, playing with kids and entertaining them and giving out sweets,” Black tells Midday as he rummages through newspaper clippings. “For years, I have been doing it and now I am a little disgusted with this place. Last Christmas, I was approached by a kid to play a Ganpati song which went viral. The recital went on for 3 hours which was captured by many folks attending the session. However, it was to be my last performance. A lot of people point out that I stopped doing that and I say yeah!” But, why did Black stop playing Santa Claus? “My spirit is crushed,” shares Black. Earlier, he used to have a snowman and a Christmas tree but he stopped decorating his place in 2016. “It used to be fun until random passersby started hanging around in the vicinity. They thought this was an easygoing place. Teenage girls and boys would indulge in carnal pleasures in broad daylight which, to me, is absolutely unacceptable,” remarks Black. He never wanted to leave the wadi for any other place in the world but now he is unsure of his stance. Like other gated societies, khotachiwadi doesn’t have gates and guards. “People living here are old and they don’t even know how to yell. The goodness has been taken for granted and it is horrible. It’s the presence of outside people all year round in the precinct that has turned it into a menace, remarks Black. “Every year, I look forward to Christmas celebrations with my friends Christopher Baptista, Shailendra and more guys I grew up with. But, gradually – I want to stop doing this as well,” shares Black in a disappointed manner. Black wishes that Khotachiwadi remained obscure and out of bounds in order to preserve it. “We keep the place clean, however, visitors move our stuff around to click pictures. They damage our bikes and pots for their social media stories.” Dismayed by this attitude, Black draws analogies as to why Khotachiwadi should be protected as a precinct. The need to preserve Khotachiwadi and its heritage When you look at the genesis of modern Mumbai, it reveals how it was a colonial endeavour to transform seven islands into a metropolis. When they started to expand the city beyond the confines of the four walls, they invited a lot of trading communities as well as working communities to come take up residence in the city. This expansion transformed the city into a financial powerhouse, informs Baptista. And, when these people from different regions of India, with different cultural backgrounds, migrated to the city, they brought with them those forms of expression that reflected in the regional residential dwellings, as opposed to say, the public forms of architecture like the Neo-Gothic Revival, neoclassical, Art Deco and more. You have these stamps of Pan-Indian identities across Mumbai city, whether you're talking about these bungalows of Khotachiwadi, the wadas around Girgaum or the Havelis of Worli. “So it represents the identity of Bombay as being not linear, but pluralistic. Also, it adds vibrancy to the city's skyline and I think it preserves a very, very vibrant tapestry comprising these areas, threads that have made their way from different spaces and found form and expression on this island city,” shares Baptista. He continues, “I think that stands for our identity as a city as a whole. And with development, when you're talking about apartment buildings, complexes and high rises, there is a certain detachment that takes place from the older street, which is where life exists, which is where city dynamism unfolds. And then you're taken away from those streets and based into these rather impersonal looking structures which give you a sense of detachment.” What follows is a sense of apathy and with apathy comes an attitude that drives you away from caring for your city. Baptista opines that this change in approach is very dangerous and more detrimental to cities, character, charm and identity. However, locals are doing their bit to preserve the heritage and keep the culinary traditions alive. Culinary traditions during Christmas Sorpotel is usually a Christmas favourite which refers to minced meat in a potato mash formed into these little cutlet-shaped things that are fried. That's again the English influence, shares Baptista. “We prefer mutton curry, vrindaloo, pork and fish as it is more of a staple on the Christmas menu. For the designer James Ferreira, Christmas is a very family-oriented affair. “Our families come down to celebrate the festival for a day or two. We make sweets and send them to each other to share the festivities. The sweets we make are Maharashtrian in style, which include Marzipan, Mewris, Kul-kuls, Shankar paare and Ju-jubs,” shares Ferreirs. Other traditional Christmas sweets include milk cream, which is made of milk and cashew nuts shaped into little shells. Some families have also taken up marshmallows which is another English-influenced culinary practice.
21 December,2023 09:15 AM IST | Mumbai | Ainie Rizvi
Leons Joseph's father is half Malayalee and half Goan; his mother, on the other hand, is half East Indian and half Anglo Indian-Malayalee and that is why he calls himself a ‘soda lemon mix’. "The Catholic community is so close-knit and since we all belong to a Parish, you know how active it is when organising activities and events. It's like one big family. So, during the Covid-19 pandemic, I felt that there was some kind of feeling that people were missing those feast and relatable experiences, which they would otherwise have." So, Joseph decided to make something relatable so that people can feel closer to the experience. That is how Uncle D'souza was born. Mumbai boasts of a very large Catholic community that not only enjoys going to church but also participating in the various other events conducted in their parishes in different parts of the city. These include cultural events like music and dance competitions. Beyond the church, the different neighbourhoods organise sports tournaments, and are also known for their typical mannerisms like every other community. Last but not least important days of observances like Mount Mary's feast in September are a part and parcel of most of their lives. Joseph is one of a handful of Catholics in the city, who do not create content around food, fashion and lifestyle but rather enjoy creating content around their own community, which they know best. As a Mumbaikar, one has been exposed to Aunty Maggie, who went viral roughly 10 years ago for her imitations of the community. After that, VJ Jose's popular 'Bandra Buggers' video also went viral. Interestingly, the advent of reels has brought these imitations back in more ways than one and one of them is by Joseph. Celebrating Mumbai's Catholic community The city-based lawyer's signature fictional character Uncle D'souza is inspired by people in his community and neighbourhood. He explains, "Through him, I spoke about Christmas and how we decorate our houses and visit people. That video went viral and then people started suggesting that I make something on Easter. It is the viewers who started suggesting topics of what they wanted to see from Uncle D'souza." With such a strong connection, the Mumbaikar has now become synonymous with the character, Uncle D'souza, because most often than not people refer to him as uncle, and that often makes him forget his name, he jokes. It is also what inspires him because there wasn't Catholic representation at the time. Earlier there was Aunty Maggie, played by Rozzlin Pereira, he shares. After she stopped making content around the community, there was no content on Catholic culture, according to Joseph, and that made him take that step. "My entire aim is to not be a content creator but to represent the community because our community looks so alien not only to non-Catholics but also the different religious sects like the Protestants or any other ones, they don't know what we do, our different sub- cultures, or small minute Catholic mannerisms that we do that are so unique to us." Even in every church, Joseph says there are so many different cultures that it has all become one unique ‘Bombay Catholic culture’. “You may be a Goan, Mangalorean or any other culture, you adopt the Bombay Catholic culture because it’s a little bit of everything. For example, the Wedding Masala song is a mixture of Goan, Mangalorean and East Indian wedding songs.” As far as Joseph goes, it’s his adoption of not only English but also Goan and Mangalorean Konkani that makes his reels unique. Having not only been encouraged by his mother to learn the languages to preserve the culture, but also attending mass as an altar server for services in different languages, he has been able to speak in many languages. Interestingly, Joseph says he makes the videos only in his free time. He explains, "I have always made this conscious decision to not be in the content creation business, the more I try to commercialise this work that I do, I would not enjoy doing it. I will only do it for topics that feel relatable, so there is no pressure to create them." Now, he gets help on how to make videos for Instagram. During the Covid-19 pandemic, Joseph would pick up one trending topic for Uncle D'Souza to talk about. One of them was a video about how there were rising cases of domestic violence. "Through the Uncle D’souza character, I made a character ‘Bebdo D’mello’ who is doing bomabom (noise) during the pandemic and he is beating his wife’,"Joseph, who goes by @leonsify on Instagram, breaks it down. Over the last three years, he has also created another character called Denzil, a youth who misses church and just lies about everything. However, it's not random but very well-thought out by him. Imitating the latest Navratri reel, he shares, "There is a clear balance between not sounding like a religious fanatic but making a conscious effort to get everybody under the same umbrella. I take Catholic culture and social awareness and club it together." Most recently, he dived into the Bandra Fair culture, and made the most of it With Christmas around the corner, Joseph does have plans but before that he plans on making them on Advent and feast of Christ The King, and any other topic that he connects with. Having fun being an actor Joseph isn't the only one. Walter D’souza, who came to Mumbai 15 years ago, hails from Kankavli in Maharashtra, has been doing theatre from his school days. Having studied in a Marathi-medium school and with his first language being Marathi, it was only natural for him to take his acting to the next level by becoming a theatre actor. Since the 30-year-old liked watching Marathi cinema, he was inspired by Ashok Saraf’s character of Professor Dhond in Gupchup Gupchup (1983). “From my childhood, I have always liked the character. Since there was no work for actors during the Covid-19 pandemic lockdown, there was something inside of me wanting to act. So, I decided I would do Professor Dhond’s character in Hindi.” Initially, D’souza thought he would do just one video on his Instagram account @mr.walter_not_white, which is about the Catholics drinking alcohol, that eventually went viral. He explains, “We know how the Catholic community has been stereotyped in Bollywood movies, so I said I’ll do it on that and create the character Pascoal Pinto. If I had to do it on anything else, people would have not liked it.” On the same day that he released the video, D’souza says he got over 2,000 followers and that shocked him, especially because he had done a lot of Hindi content before that but this Catholic community related content was liked by a lot of people. Being an actor, D'souza gets ideas from relatives or movies. For example, he created his own character of Catholics who are not married inspired by the 'Taarak Mehta Ka Oolta Chashmah' character of Popatlal. He explains, "They like a girl, but they are not married. Most Goan men are usually on cruise, and are 40-year-olds, who want to get married. Through his character sketches, he also makes videos on food with catchy Konkani tunes. “I used to put some Goan Konkani songs at the start of the video, that are forgotten by people now. I used to get messages about these songs. People used to ask me about the songs and tell me to send the playlist. So, I compiled all the songs together and sent it to them.” Such has been the response to his videos that when D’souza was in his friend’s hometown of Sawantwadi, two girls passing on the bike, called out to him ‘Aye Pascoal’. Interestingly, D'souza points out that nobody recognises him for the nine Marathi plays that he has done but they recognise him more for the characters in these reels. He says, “I had only thought to myself that I would practise my acting during the lockdown. I used to not even be on social media before that because I considered it a big distraction. Imagine rehearsing for a two-hour play." Also Read: Mumbai Christmas shopping guide: Curated list of places to bring home stunning decor items Bringing out Bandra in Mumbai's Catholic community It is no different with Erika Packard, who has always loved to observe people and their mannerisms. It has often been translated into characters that she creates around them, and Bandra’s Russell was no different, which she created a little over a year ago on @erikapackard on Instagram. She shares, “A friend of mine used a particular filter, and when I tried the filter, I went back to my college days, when the band boys would be busy with practice – they were so Catholic. I have been across boys like this my whole life and that is how Russell came to life. The whole filter and look fitted so well – the long hair and oversized T-shirts.” Coincidentally, Packard says the oversized T-shirt look has also been her look for a long time. While it was only the start, it was a video about Russell, played by her, where he lives in Bandra, and how much he pays for rent, that went viral. It is inspired from a video format that is popular on the internet and that takes place in New York. In her typical Catholic mannerism, she explains, “That video took off like mad. I realised that people wanted to know more about Russell. It was typical with words like Waroda Road, Dada’s house, Sorpotel – these words made people like the video. Even the word ‘chattie’, the handi that you make the curries in. Even we say cane, and never say, ‘whack you with the broom’. People related to it so much that about 200 – 300 Catholics like D’mello, Pereira, D’Souza, and some Matilda too followed me,” she laughs. When the Mumbaikar started out, she didn’t imagine creating a whole story around Russell’s life, and his friends Nigel and Clyde – all of whom are imaginary. She shares, “I just did a casual Bandra boy - the band practice, Candies, Veronica Road, St Andrew’s College and footie kind of person. The way he talks comes from my mother – because my mom is Goan, and my dad is Anglo Indian. I have gone to Goa a lot; I have a lot of family in Malad – Orlem. The way they talk -- only Catholics know how Catholics talk inside the home.” It came as a happy realisation to Packard, who at that time didn’t believe that the community was so big when she started out. It was also why she was sceptical about people liking the character of Russell. Her impression of the fictional character has connected so well with Mumbaikars that she had to create a story around him. "People want to see Russell’s house, they want to know where Russell went for the weekend. I put up a post yesterday of myself in a sexy dress and they wanted to know where Russell went,” she says while laughing. Interestingly, this whole experience has made her go back to hers and her family’s roots and memories. “I used all my aunties and uncle’s names like Patsy, Beryl and Herman for the videos,” she adds. So, what are the themes that she has explored with Russell? Packard says with Russell, she explores anything and everything related to the Catholic community - football, the Bandra gymkhana, Soul Fry, and even dating -- all of which make it relatable. Interestingly, none of this is pre-scripted and she spends not more than five minutes after she gets an idea to make the video. The rawness is visible when even occasional mistakes like fumbling while saying the dialogues, make it look as authentic as possible. It is simply because the videos are no-fuss and made quickly because she feels if they were made professionally, it wouldn’t work. Ask if Russell is going to be there for Christmas, and she assures, “He is definitely going to be there with kulkuls, putting up the balls on the Christmas tree, and sorpotel and all that. Everything will be there.” Entertaining people one reel at a time Interestingly, Joseph, D’souza and Packard aren’t the only ones who have jumped on the bandwagon in the last few years, even Ashville Simoens started creating hyper-local and relatable content during the Covid-19 pandemic on @mrkadakman on Instagram. “It was my wife who inspired me to start this at a time when I was trying to do videos on misheard lyrics. She said, why don’t you make videos about Catholic grandmas and their mannerisms. I started imitating my own grandma talking to her friends, which I have heard throughout my childhood.” Being a good Hindi speaker all his life, Malad-based Simoens says it was a culture shock to him to hear his grandmother speak Hindi the way she does, which as most people know that Catholics have a typical way of speaking the language -- with an Anglicised accent. It’s these impressions of Simoens acting like his grandmother, with the character Aunty Matilda, that immediately took off and was being shared by many members of Mumbai’s Catholic community, more than anybody outside of the city. These videos also helped open doors for the Mumbaikar, who at the time was hosting drinking games, but is now an emcee and host. “When I put out the videos, I was very sceptical about how women would react to it but the first 10 comments turned out to be from women and more importantly elderly women.” Later on, there were people who used to message him saying their grandmother, mother and aunty actually talks like the way he imitates them. The sudden popularity of the character has also taken Simoens by surprise. “It is so unfathomable because I was just a person who wanted to do something out-of-the-box. People click pictures with me today.” In one such incident which occurred only last week, the 36-year-old met an autistic child, who recognises him only by his voice. He shares, “I was compering at a 75-year-old’s birthday party, and I met the boy there. Since the child cannot recognise faces, his mother said to say the dialogue, and as I said the dialogue, the kid came and held me. It was so adorable because the story goes that he saw my video last year, and wanted a black scarf and wore it to church and wished everybody as Aunty Matilda said the dialogue to everyone. The parents said, ‘we don’t know how to thank you’ because we go through so many tough times, but he gets happy looking at your videos.” While Aunty Matilda is popular, Simoens also does another kind of video series called, ‘Who is your English teacher?’ He says many people have taken offence to them, but the idea of the character was not to hurt or roast anyone but to put it out in a strict yet funny way to people. “It’s just a video about a strict Catholic aunty teaching kids how to pronounce English words,” states the Mumbaikar. While he creates content, he doesn’t want to be considered an influencer but more of an entertainer. With Christmas only two months away, he will definitely entertain us with more of Aunty Matilda. Being one of many members from the Catholic community from Mumbai, who shares these relatable reels with fellow Goans, Mangaloreans, East Indians and Anglo Indians, this writer is confident that Uncle D'souza, Denzil, Pascoal Pinto, Rita Nurse, Russell and Aunty Matilda will be there to entertain everybody.Also Read: No mandate to hold centre accountable: SC lawyer on same-sex marriage verdict
21 December,2023 07:40 AM IST | Mumbai | Nascimento Pinto
Amid Mumbai’s urban landscape, one enigma stands tall - the soaring cost of rental accommodation. The essentials of life – ‘Roti, kapda aur makaan' are universal, but in Mumbai, securing a 'makaan' proves to be a bank-breaking task. With the high costs of renting, the aspiration of residing in affluent areas like Worli, Malabar Hills and Peddar Road remains a dream for many. Let alone South Bombay, in suburban areas like Vile Parle, some homeowners ask brokers to cap the rent at non-negotiable rates. If this were not enough, tenants also face bias on grounds of their profession, food preferences and marital status. High rentals: Owner’s bid vs. tenant’s willingness to pay In a conversation with Mid-day, Siddhi Bansod, 27, a middle-class professional tells us: “While searching for an apartment in Vile Parle East, a broker informed us that most of the owners prefer the flat to stay empty rather than negotiate the rent. One homeowner quoted Rs 61,000 for 2bhk and my budget was fixed at Rs 60,000. Despite the minimal difference, he refused to bring it down.” Most of the Parle flats belong to business-class people, particularly from the Gujarati and Marwadi communities. For most of them, property investments are made through multiple revenue sources and they are not entirely dependent on the rental income. Later, the broker revealed how the flat had been empty for the past four months because of non-negotiable and steep rents. Additionally, the rental prices can be increased yearly at the owner’s discretion, informs Amol Ravetkar who manages the Ravetkar Housing Group. “The ability to establish and increase the rent is reserved for the landlord. He may raise the rent by as much as 15 percent yearly for improvements if 70 percent of the tenants consent in writing,” he added. Rohan Pagar is a land trading advisor who primarily deals in properties at Bandra, Khar and Santacruz. He tells Midday that landlords in Bandra can increase the yearly rent anywhere between 5 – 10 percent, and the discretion to do this rests with them. Similar increment rates have been observed in Thane by Pramod Salve, who runs a property management company in that area. However, homeowners are not the only ones to aggravate this rental fiasco. Mumbai being the financial capital, houses corporate leaders who draw substantial compensation packages. For instance, take the case of Bhasker Jaiswal – The COO of Dentsu India, who pays Rs 2.4 lakh per month for an apartment at Dr Annie Besant Road, South Bombay. Some individuals in Mumbai can afford to pay exorbitant rents due to a combination of factors. Firstly, Mumbai is home to a diverse range of industries, including finance, entertainment and technology. These sectors offer high-paying jobs that attract affluent professionals, reveals Steven Mathews – a broker based in Parel. Additionally, wealthy individuals, business owners and celebrities often choose to reside in prominent societies for their status and lifestyle, contributing to a demand for premium properties with high rents. Though Jaiswal’s yearly income of Rs 1.5 crore enables him to pay exorbitant rents, there are Mumbaikars whose major chunk of income is spent on housing loans. This brings us to a recent report by Knight Frank India which states that Mumbai has earned the distinction of being the costliest city to reside in India. As per the report, Mumbai registers a staggering EMI-to-income ratio of 55 percent. This implies that a typical Mumbai household allocates more than half of its income toward paying for home loan EMIs. Such is the case of Abhinav Pathare, who pays a hefty premium against his monthly income of Rs 2 lakh to afford a flat in Hill Crest, Andheri East. The demand-supply equation becomes the driving force behind the steep rentals in Mumbai, informs Salve. As compared to olden times when there would be only one earning member, most families have disintegrated into multiple earning members. This enhances their paying capacity and thus the demand goes high. At the same time, Mumbai is a peninsula and can only expand northwards. Rest all directions are blocked by water bodies and therefore, it cannot expand like Delhi or Bengaluru. Hence supply of land cannot increase to match this demand. This is also why Mumbai has the highest number of skyscrapers in India. Hence, due to the high demand and low supply – prices tend to skyrocket, shares Pagar. Rent topped with monumental deposits Mumbai’s notorious rentals are aggravated by the additional costs of deposits. These upfront payments are equivalent to two to three months' worth of rent which have become a hallmark of Mumbai's rental market. Priya Mehta, a 28-year-old marketing executive, shares with Midday how she was asked to pay a monumental amount of deposit – to rent a 1BHK priced at Rs 50,000 in Lower Parel. The landlord insisted on a lock-in deposit equivalent to six month's rent, a standard practice in Lower Parel’s rental market. For Mehta, this translated into Rs 3 lakh (6 x 50,000) that she had to set aside as a deposit. While she understood the importance of the lock-in amount in securing the property, it was a major drain on her pocket that added to the overall cost of renting. For many prospective tenants in Mumbai, the shock of the high rental deposit is akin to a financial jolt. In Mathews' experience, it's not uncommon to find landlords asking for deposits ranging from six to twelve months' rent or even more, depending on the locality and the property's value. This practice significantly restricts the options available to renters, as many find themselves unable to muster the required lump sum. One of the primary reasons behind these sky-high deposits is the limited tenant protection and rent control regulations in the city. Unlike some Western countries where rental security deposits are strictly regulated, Mumbai's real estate market operates with relative freedom in this regard, informs Mathews. Consequently, landlords often demand huge deposits as a safeguard against potential losses due to damage or unpaid rent. Brokerage – One month’s rent, sometimes even more Just when you thought the steep rental fees and hefty deposits were obscenely huge, there's the added expense of brokerage, equivalent to a full month's rent. Brokerage fee is a common practice in Mumbai's rental market – where the commission is charged from both the landlord and the tenant. What’s the rationale behind this, we ask? Salve calls it a legitimate fee. It's the consultancy and service charge to the broker who had shown flats, negotiated, carried legal agreement registration and aided in police verification. However, when we compared brokerage amounts to the ones in Delhi, brokers revealed that they charge half the price of one month’s rent. The brokerage amount varies depending on the demand-supply equation as well as the locality. For example, in most housing societies of Navi Mumbai, owners don't pay any brokerage, whereas, in areas like Powai, owners are liable to pay one, informs Neel Shaikh – a property dealer based in Goregaon. Due to a lack of regulation, paying brokerage for a rental house in Mumbai presents a formidable challenge for tenants. Brokers typically demand a commission equivalent to one month's rent, sometimes even more, placing an immediate strain on the tenant's finances. This, coupled with the already high rental rates in Mumbai, exponentially increases the cost of securing a place to live. Moreover, the absence of standardised fees and a clear regulatory framework means that tenants often find themselves navigating a murky and unpredictable process, where multiple brokers may claim a share of the brokerage amount, further inflating the overall expenditure. Landlord’s biases Exacerbating the concerns of tenants, there are instances where landlords hold biases against specific communities or categories of people trying to secure rental properties. For instance, take the case of Hera Sajid who encountered discrimination based on her Muslim background, profession in the media field and single status. While expressing interest in an apartment in Santacruz, the landlord requested her LinkedIn profile to validate her profession. Hera received a rejection shortly after providing this information, suggesting that her identity and occupation played a pivotal role in the decision. This case underscores the staggering presence of housing discrimination faced by tenants. Ravetkar agrees that bias exists, especially on the basis of gender and marital status. “The bias does take place especially if you are a woman. It has become very difficult for a single lady or even a single man to get an apartment. In today’s generation, live-in relationships are becoming quite common and for an unmarried couple, it becomes very difficult to get a rental apartment.” He also adds that the mindset is changing with time. “We are noticing a shift in the past 2-3 years amongst properties owned by the young generation (35-50). These landlords are relatively progressive and have eased the conditions post the pandemic.” However, cases continue to surface where tenants get tossed to the margins due to unfound notions. Despite the progressive mindset, tenants continue to face other forms of bias. Discrimination based on religion, particularly against Muslim or minority tenants, exists because of their eating habits. “Most of the Muslims consume non-vegetarian food, and the smell can be intolerable to some people who are pure vegetarian, especially Jains,” shares Ravetkar. Professionals in certain fields, like the media industry, modelling and film production are not preferred as tenants. They might face scepticism because of their infamous lifestyle and odd working hours, informs Pagar. Additionally, freelancers are also rejected due to an inconsistent source of income which may lead to delayed rent payments. The rental market in Mumbai can be highly competitive, and these biases not only limit housing options for affected individuals but also perpetuate social inequalities and divisions within the city. Efforts to address and eliminate such biases are crucial for promoting fairness and equal housing opportunities in Mumbai's real estate landscape. To address the issue, Ravetkar opines that both parties can benefit from effective communication. “Problems won't be resolved if there is lack of communication between the tenants and landlords. Often, cleaning and maintaining the property is a major source of disagreements. Sometimes disagreements may occur over the expense of the repair or mending rather than the cleaning and repairs themselves. Hence, transparent conversations gain primary importance.”
20 December,2023 07:00 PM IST | Mumbai | Ainie Rizvi
Rutuja Teli was always fond of watching a show about the world’s most extraordinary homes. Interestingly, like many other people, the Covid-19 pandemic inspired her to start something of her own. Collaborating with a close friend, who has since become her partner, the Mumbaikar began her real estate journey. She explains, "We embarked on a journey to create a real estate YouTube channel and we posted our first video in September 2020. We leveraged the expertise of local brokers who had access to such properties and helped them sell their inventory faster." It was her major focus till August 2022, which is when they started making real estate property reels on Instagram. At a time when content creators are king, the market is booming not only for food and travel content creators but even real estate, which seems to have caught on to the trend in the last year. Even as many people want to get to know about food hotspots and hidden destinations, they are also interested in real estate. While only one or two videos or accounts may go viral, there are a lot more out there. As this writer explored, he found a lot more accounts of real estate brokers trying to sell properties uniquely. They are followed by people who are not only interested in buying properties but also in keeping up with the latest trends and prices, especially in Mumbai, where the prices of houses are premium and are always skyrocketing. The trend is being fuelled by some traditional real estate brokers jumping on the bandwagon as they realise the power of reels for business. On the other hand, it is inspiring many others to start something only because they love houses and Teli is one of them. At the same time, she is also someone who wants to bridge the gap between the realtor and the buyer. Making space for real estate It is no wonder that she made the shift to reels. She explains, "After comparing the response, it intrigued us to create content specifically for Instagram compared to YouTube as the viewership grew at a rapid pace which also contributed to the growth of our business." Social media platforms are being preferred by both buyers and sellers over traditional real estate portals due to the quick response mechanism. With people reaching out on comments and direct messages (DMs), it only makes it easier for both the buyer and the broker. It is a stark difference from when she was personally house hunting less than a decade ago. She shares, "In 2015, when I started my homebuying journey with my family, I noticed a lack of professional, well-educated, and service-oriented consultants in the market." Teli decided to fill this vacuum by offering valuable guidance supported by thorough research and analysis. "With the industry's recognition and regulation by RERA, the entry barrier has lowered, allowing young individuals like myself to pursue a career in real estate. My passion for assisting people in finding their dream homes is what led me to become a real estate agent," she adds. Being a real estate broker only in South Mumbai, Teli says the demand for buying and renting is more or less equal. However, she makes an interesting observation. "A lot more people are willing to buy apartments instead of renting as renting good apartments in Mumbai has its own set of challenges," she adds. In the process, Teli has learned how people often don't realise the importance of a consultant. The Mumbai broker explains, "While buying a property, there is a long list of pros and cons which differ from person to person. Due to a handful of negative encounters, the reputation of real estate consultants/agents/brokers has taken a hit." However, she sees the bright side and is using social media to showcase properties in Mumbai. At a time when food and travel content is popular, where does real estate content find its place? She shares, "Just like how food and travel content made its way into people’s hearts, I think real estate is also taking up that space and entertaining viewers as it is refreshing to watch some extraordinary homes that most of us have only seen from the outside." Teli understands the emotions about houses and Mumbai. It is also why she believes, "The high rises of Mumbai have a very strong effect on everyone whether you are a Mumbaikar or not, after all, it’s the city of dreams. These apartments are one of a kind in the world and the different views from different sky rises across the city help to romanticise Mumbai in new ways." Carrying forward a legacy Elsewhere, being a real estate broker has always been more than just selling properties for Ravi Kewalramani. It is because he is a second-generation broker who is carrying forward his father's legacy. Like Teli, he has seen a significant increase in real estate-based content on social media. "More and more people are finding out that people are interested in homes of all types. There are memes of various real estate agents too," he adds. It is also why Kewalramani decided to bring a fresh outlook to the business. Switching to social media seriously was also about survival, which inspired him to do more. He explains, "I have had a YouTube channel since 2014. However, I wasn't active on it for a long period. During Covid, there was widespread panic in the real estate industry. It was worse for real estate agents. People weren't able to come and see properties." This made Mumbaikar think out of the box and decide to take properties to the clients. That's when he returned to YouTube with educational videos and to showcase properties. With videos on YouTube, Kewalramani took to Instagram in December 2021, and that has helped him generate curiosity among people about properties in Mumbai. He explains, "It has helped me to express myself as a creative individual. It is also effective to educate the audience on real estate, which has been largely a close-knit community. My reels are like windows to the real industry, and whoever is interested can peek into it." Apart from the curiosity and educational aspect, the Mumbai-based real estate broker says there is more to it. "There is also an entertainment angle, an aspirational side as well as an awe-inspiring feeling to a lot of the audience and the viewers. People are forthcoming and give open feedback on every property. It is a great way to get genuine feedback from people across boundaries," he adds. While Kewalramani believes the real estate industry is not always booming, YouTube and Instagram have changed his business in more than one way. He explains, "There has been increased awareness about the real estate industry. Genuine buyers who have never dared to purchase a property have come forward to work exclusively with us." The Mumbaikar sells properties between Colaba to Borivali, Karjat, Lonavala, Alibaug, Goa and Dubai too. Over time, he has sold Rs 25 lakh studio apartment to a Rs 300 crore sea-touching private villa. With social media here, it will only get bigger and better.
20 December,2023 06:56 PM IST | Mumbai | Nascimento Pinto
The start of a new year calls for a befitting celebration. From donning lucky colours to indulging in special foods believed to ring in prosperity, individuals all over the world are gearing up for a memorable New Year's celebration. However, for those anticipating a New Year bash on December 31, look no further! Dive into our exclusive compilation of New Year's Eve party guide in Mumbai, crafted to amplify your year-end festivities with food, drinks and music. In this feature, explore the hottest New Year's parties in town, ensuring that you bid adieu to the current year in style. Cheers to 2024! Hottest New Year parties in Mumbai Dance the night away Welcome New Year's Eve like no other with One8 Commune, where an array of exciting events and renowned DJs, including the in-house DJ Viraj, are poised to set the stage for an epic night. Amidst the chic ambiance that defines the restaurant, dance your way into the new year, surrounded by the vibrant energy of the venue. Complementing the festivities is a carefully crafted festive menu featuring delights such as Confit Garlic and Tomato Flatbread, Zataar Spiced Chicken Flatbread, Edamame Rice and Prawns Hot Garlic—an exquisite feast for the senses. To elevate the experience, savour signature cocktails like the Lavender Gimlet, Modern G&T, Banana Old Fashioned, Mango Vino and Berry Sour to set the tone for the night. When: December 31, 9pmPrice: Couple – 12k, Male Stag – 8k and Female – 5kWhere: 18/B, Juhu Tara Rd, behind Little Italy, Shivaji Nagar, JuhuCall: 081084 01818 Bold Bling Chaos Step into the glitz and glamour of the New Year's Eve extravaganza, "Bold Bling Chaos" at Someplace Else, Mumbai! Immerse yourself in the glittery theme of gold and silver, as the eatery ignites the night with a commercial/Bollywood fusion curated by the sensational Dj Jayweather and Dj aviis. Featuring a mesmerising BLING setup, delectable food and tantalising drinks that promise an unforgettable start to the fresh year. Elevate your New Year's celebration with their island bar, eclectic ambiance and an electrifying musical journey that promises a vibe like never before. When: December 31, 8pm onwardsPrice: Couple – 6k, Male Stag – 4k and Female – 2kWhere: Level 2, Jio World Drive, MAKER MAXITY, Bandra Kurla Complex, Bandra East Groove Studio (20)24 Neuma is transforming into the ultimate studio destination for a memorable New Year's Eve experience. The venue promises a night under the stars and neon lights, with studio nights taking center stage. Embracing the theme of Groove Studio (20)24, a lively homage to the iconic disco days, the celebration guarantees a banging tribute. With notable DJs, a curated NYE music list, and an immersive atmosphere, Neuma is set to usher in the new year in vogue. The special New Year menu boasts culinary delights such as Basque Style Mushroom Al Ajillo, Crispy Herbed Baby Potatoes, Peruvian Cottage Cheese, 3 Peppercorn Grilled Chicken, Tempura Prawns, Bacon-Wrapped Prawns, Pulled Pork On Melba, Lamb Goulash with Baguette, Crab Linguine and the Thai Inspo Bowl. Along with the feast, on the menu are thematic cocktails like Picante, Southside, Whiskey Highball, Berry Spiritz and Ginger Spiked Cider, along with a premium selection of spirits and wines. When: December 31, 9pm – 3pmWhere: Neuma, Garden Chalet, 4/6, Mandlik Rd, near Regal Cinema, Apollo Bandar, ColabaCall: 070314 93333 Rock the night Yazu beckons you to usher in the New Year with a captivating blend of music and celebration, featuring the pulsating beats of DJ Mihir Chandan. Prepare for an electrifying experience as the restaurant transforms into the epicenter of style and festivity. The meticulously curated NYE music list sets the tone right for the night. Complementing the musical extravaganza is a specially designed festive menu that includes delectable delights such as BBQ Roast Chicken Puff Dimsum, Three-Style Mushroom Charcoal Puff Dimsum, Veg Ma Kimono, Shiitake Nigiri with Red Quinoa Sticky Rice Sushi and Tom Yum Grilled Prawns – the Christmas specials alongside the regular menu. Quench your thirst with themed cocktails that add an extra layer of excitement to the celebration. Indulge in the unique flavours of Bloody Maai, Japanese Colada, Asian Martini and Central Asia, each crafted to perfection. When: December 31, 10pm – 3amPrice: 8,000 Per couple and 5,000 stag entryWhere: 2, One Lodha Place, Senapati Bapat Marg, opp. Lodha Supremus, Upper Worli, ParelCall: 93245 84315 and 89288 28383 Savour special spirits At Koa, the stage is set for an exclusive New Year's Eve celebration with a unique twist – a special Bar Night that promises an evening of exotic drinks and infectious ambiance. Indulge in the revelry as Koa presents a meticulously crafted menu of handcrafted cocktails, ensuring a night brimming with flavour and flair. Delight your taste buds with Koa's themed New Year Menu, featuring gastronomic wonders like Seafood Paella and Stuffed Three Cheese and Walnut Conchiglie Pasta. Sip on the festive Christmas Sour, Merry Berry, Mulled Wine, Sea Breeze and Cranberry Aperol Spritz, each concoction crafted with precision and creativity. When: December 31, 7pm – 1.30pmPrice: Rs 1999 onwardsWhere: Eden Square Building, Ground Floor, 10th Rd, NS Mankikar Rd, JVPD Scheme, Juhu Call: 8828811151/52 Grab more than just happy hours Revel in the joy of reduced MRP on alcohol every hour from 8 pm to midnight, ensuring a constant flow of cheer in your glass. Elevate your experience with their exclusive NYE package, offering a delightful fusion of Indian and imported liquors at just Rs. 2500. The festivities are further complemented by a curated music list, creating an ambiance that resonates with the holiday spirit. Indulge your palate in the festive delights of Blue Bop Cafe's special menu, featuring a selection of culinary creations such as Christmas Stuffed Mushrooms, Christmas Chicken Salad, Christmas Roast Chicken, Vegetable Baked Pie, Christmas Tree Veg Pizza and a tempting Dark Chocolate & Gingerbread Gelato. Explore the spirit of the holidays with themed cocktails, including the rich and creamy Classic Eggnog, the zestful Christmas Sour and the comforting warmth of Mulled Wine. Blue Bop Cafe extends a warm welcome to an evening where reduced MRP, a specially designed menu, and festive cocktails converge to create an extraordinary New Year's Eve celebration. When: December 31, 8pm – 1.30pmPrice: Rs 2500 for Indian and imported liquor/Food will be ala carteWhere: 318, Linking Rd, Khar, Khar WestCall: 09372202586 Leave the city Join Imagicaa's insane New Year’s Bash brigade and get ready to ring in 2024. DJ Ganesh, renowned for his mesmerising Bollywood beats and captivating mixes, will be at the helm, ensuring a night of music and festive celebration. Among the best things to do this New Year’s Eve is enjoying thrilling rides that will be operational from the park opening until the wee hours of the night, apart from the Grand Imagicaa Night Parade and groovy dance performances. Binge on lip-smacking food options, along with refreshing beverages that lift the spirit and keep the party going until the early hours of the morning. It's a night where memories will be made, laughter will be shared and dreams for the year ahead will take flight. When: December 31, 8pm onwardsPrice: Rs 1179 onwardsWhere: Imagica Theme Park, KhopoliLog on to bookmyshow.com Camping Party There’s nothing quite like spending a night under a blanket of stars, sitting around a cozy campfire with good company. Here's a camping party at Pawna Lake to welcome 2024 in the lap of nature. How to reach: If you are not travelling by your vehicle, then reach Lonavala by public transport (bus or train) and from there you can hire a car/jeep to the particular campsite. If you are travelling with your vehicle, then just follow Google maps. Private parking space is available. When: December 31, 3pm onwardsPrice: Rs 1250 onwardsWhere: Pawna Lake, LonavalaLog on to bookmyshow.com
20 December,2023 06:30 PM IST | Mumbai | Ainie RizviAbout 26 per cent of Indian employees are at risk of leaving their present organisation next year, a new report revealed on Tuesday. According to Boston Consulting Group (BCG), nearly 28 per cent of workers globally said they are actively or passively looking for a new job because they do not see themselves with their current employer within a year. "With 26 per cent of the Indian employees surveyed at risk of leaving next year, the task for employers in the country is as challenging as it is for its global peers. The key will be for employers to prioritise and invest in the most optimal way to understand what really matters to their employees," said Neetu Chitkara, MD & Partner, leads People & Organisational Practice, BCG India. The report surveyed 11,000 employees from eight countries (US, Canada, UK, France, Germany, Australia, Japan, and India) between October 6 and 30, 2023. Employees when asked "what would drive them to take a new job" -- said they are focused on functional factors, with pay the overwhelming top choice, followed by benefits and perks, work/life balance, work they enjoy and care about, and better career learning opportunities, the report mentioned. When 20+ work attributes were correlated with employees’ stated intention to stay in or leave their jobs -- functional benefits, including pay -- dropped toward the bottom of the list, and emotional factors dominated the top five most important factors: job security, being treated fairly and respected, enjoyable work, feeling valued and appreciated, and feeling supported. Moreover, strong dissatisfaction with managers was linked to a doubling of attrition risk, with 56 per cent of employees with that sentiment at risk, compared with a global average of 28 per cent, according to the report. This story has been sourced from a third party syndicated feed, agencies. Mid-day accepts no responsibility or liability for its dependability, trustworthiness, reliability and data of the text. Mid-day management/mid-day.com reserves the sole right to alter, delete or remove (without notice) the content in its absolute discretion for any reason whatsoever
20 December,2023 08:24 AM IST | New Delhi | IANS
Mumbai's graffiti scene is emerging as a dynamic tool for expression. From celebrated film stars immortalised on the walls to thought-provoking social issues revolving around gender equality and climate activism – street art in Mumbai is becoming a medium to spark discourse on a myriad of themes. Apart from expressionism, creativity and colour have breathed new life into formerly congested lanes, old docks, slums, overlooked corners and decaying walls. While Bandra’s Chapel Road is a treasure trove of cinematic characters, the initiatives of the 'St+art India project' at Sassoon Docks and the 'Chal Rang De' gig in Asalpha showcase the transformative power of art in revamping neglected corners of the city. The charm of Mumbai's graffiti work extends beyond the locals, attracting a steady stream of tourists wanting to explore the city's vibrant street art scene. Midday.com traversed every nook and cranny of Mumbai to curate the trendiest graffiti murals one must check out, across the city. Marol Art Village (MAV), Andheri East The latest enhancement to Mumbai's graffiti landscape is the mural gracing the streets of Marol – the renowned "BEST" at Maroshi Road station. The dilapidated walls at the station became an open-air canvas for local artists who transformed them into bulbous portraits, depicting the city’s backbone – The BEST bus. Graffiti at BEST station at Marol Maroshi Road Until approximately a month ago, this BEST station was essentially a dump site. Reflections upon this situation prompted the artists from the art community – MAV to come together and initiate a restoration effort involving a cleanup drive and the addition of a whimsical mural. The community’s collective vision is to put Marol on the cultural map, aspiring to turn it into the next Kala Ghoda with heritage walks and street art tours. Within the MAV, the Bharat Van Garden holds a significant place where they conduct weekly sessions, supported by the Military Road Residents Welfare Association (MRRWA) and Wicked Broz, a graffiti and street art collective. MAV regularly organises #Back2TheRoots jam sessions at the garden every Sunday, offering activities such as slacklining, sketching sessions, a garden clean-up and a rap cipher. The murals by artists and locals reflect the culture of the families in the area and other MAV stops that patrons can explore are Adarsh Nagar, Jabarpada, Vijay Pipe Lane and buildings around Marol. Rapper Kraantinaari's collab art with Marol Art Village Bollywood street art in Bandra Welcome to Bandra’s Chapel Road where walls are adorned with life-sized depictions of Bollywood figures. While Mumbai has been the birthplace of Bollywood, it's noteworthy that Bollywood contributes significantly to the city's identity. To mark this symbiotic relationship, graphic designer and artist Ranjit Dahiya initiated the ‘Bollywood Art Project’ (BAP). This eclectic stretch has become a canvas for local and international artists associated with BAP to showcase their talent, transforming mundane walls into captivating works of art. As you walk down Chapel Road, there is Madhubala in her quintessential pose near Duke’s restaurant. Further ahead, there is a poster of Anarkali and two iconic images of Amitabh Bachchan and Rajesh Khanna. Streets of Chapel Road revamped by Bollywood Art Project The murals often depict a diverse range of subjects, from Bollywood celebrities and cultural icons to social messages meant to sensitise people over women’s safety, raise awareness around health and promote religious harmony. Each stroke of paint contributes to the visual symphony that captures the dynamic essence of Bandra and its cosmopolitan spirit. Should you wander through Bandra, a leisurely walk along Pereira Road will bring you into direct contact with none other than the iconic angry young man – Amitabh Bacchan. Painted on a horizontally robust wall, his mural exudes all his charisma and waiting for a cinematic duel with Peter. The murals not only add aesthetic value to the neighbourhood but also contribute to the sense of community and cultural identity. Chapel Road has become a must-visit destination for those who appreciate the fusion of urban art and the rich tapestry of Mumbai's diverse culture, turning a casual stroll into an enriching visual experience. Mural of Amitabh Bacchan Sassoon Docks, South Bombay The renowned Sassoon Docks in Colaba are now ready to captivate with their painted walls. In December 2022, a collective of more than 30 artists, participating in the St+ArtUrban Art Festival, embarked on an ambitious project to revitalise Sassoon Docks in Cuffe Parade, which has existed for over 142 years. As one of the city's oldest docks and largest fish markets, Sassoon Docks has undergone a remarkable transformation, now adorned with numerous murals and installations crafted by artists from across the globe. Artists have breathed life into the dock’s landscape through vibrant street art, transforming the freshly painted walls into a street art gallery. The mural vividly portrays the hustle and bustle of Sassoon Docks, depicting scenes ranging from the sale of fish to the arrival of handcarts carrying the day's catch, all while showcasing the daily lives of the Koli community, the fisherfolk who earn their livelihood in the vicinity. The objective was to make the docks more accessible to the public. Considering that only a limited number of individuals have visited these docks and gained insight into the activities occurring within—such as the process of bringing and selling fish—the awareness among the general populace has been notably low. Although hosting some exhibitions within the Sassoon Dock space may have marginally increased these numbers, the overall reach remains quite modest. The idea revolved around bringing the essence of the docks directly to the people of Mumbai to enhance their understanding of the city’s coast. After viewing visual references online, delving into its historical significance as a Mumbai landmark, the artists promptly decided to depict it in their artwork. Among the most impactful pieces is 'Inside Out' by artist JR, featuring monochrome print portraits of local Koli residents adorning the dock buildings. This installation serves as a poignant celebration of the vibrant Koli community, an integral part of Mumbai's rich history and culture. The artwork sheds light on often overlooked stories, particularly as much of their native spaces have succumbed to industrialisation, gentrification, or urban encroachment, Sassoon Docks being no exception. 'Inside Out' stands as a poignant reminder of untold histories struggling to endure in contemporary India.
19 December,2023 09:06 PM IST | Mumbai | Ainie Rizvi
How do you organise a party? What kind of food should be there? Do you make a music playlist in the Spotify era? Do you have games? A lot of these questions are going to be racing through our minds while we bring in the festive spirit this festive season with Christmas and New Year around the corner. It's that time of the year when there are always going to be a lot of parties hosted every other day. While some of them are with family, there are others with friends. Some will be small, some will be big. Either way, hosting a party is no easy task because everyone wants theirs to be the best. If people don't know how to host parties, Mumbai's party trend setters say you don't need to fret. There are many ways to turn your party into a hit. Say cheese! While it is easy to order finger food, there is a lot more that can be done with other kinds of dishes for people to dig into. Mumbai-based Mausam Narang, whose Eleftheria Cheese has won several accolades at the World Cheese Awards over the years, says cheese can be quite a party snack. Cheese boards have become really popular at parties in the last year. For the uninitiated, a cheese board is typically a board with different types of cheeses, paired with different kinds of fruits that go well with each other. She explains, "A well-rounded cheese board typically includes a variety of cheeses, such as soft, semi-soft and hard. They can be complemented with crackers, bread, and fresh fruits and fruit preserves alternatively. A cheese board always needs a carrier for cheese like some good quality bread & crackers." Beyond that, she says you can add condiments like mustards, tapenade, and honey that pair beautifully with a lot of cheeses. "Add texture and flavour with roasted nuts like almonds, pistachios, walnuts and dried apricots and figs. A combination of flavours, textures, and accompaniments creates a balanced cheeseboard," adds the city-based cheesemaker, who started making different kinds of cheese in 2014. As far as Mumbaikars go, Narang says we love pairing our cheeses with indigenous local condiments, preserves, crackers, and flatbreads. She explains, "Cloth-bound cheddar pairs beautifully with sweet and sour mango chutney or preserves." While it may sound like a challenge, Narang says creating a cheese board doesn't have to be complicated or fancy. "You can choose your favourite cheeses, such as soft, semi-soft, or hard varieties. Add a variety of crackers, breadsticks, and even Indian crackers like khakhra for texture." The boards can also include some roasted nuts and seasonal fruits that are readily available in your pantry to pair with the cheeses. "Lastly, pair everything with your favourite accompaniments, such as chutney and fruit preserves," expresses Narang. All fun and games Food is important when there is a party, but there should also be games, especially during Christmas and New Year. "Firstly it depends on the type of audience," says Mira Road-based emcee Arnold Lobo, continuing, "If it is a big group, then divide everybody accordingly. Start with a warm-up game that would be to guess the Christmas Carols. People have to guess the song only with the help of the tune." Keeping it Christmas-themed with the cheer since everyone usually celebrates the festival in Mumbai, Lobo says you can play dumb charades but instead of movies like it is popularly played, you can do it differently. "People can guess Christmas related stuff like Santa Claus and Christmas tree, sweets like kulkuls and coconut sweets. It is a little difficult and not as easy as guessing a movie," he adds. In a similar fun game, people can play Heads Up, where one person sticks the card on their head and the other person has to guess the Christmas-themed words. Since Secret Santa is really popular, the 29-year-old Mumbaikar, who has been an emcee for five years now, says people can give each other gifts after picking up chits. At the same time, they can also be told to get decorations for the Christmas tree and the crib together as family and friends. They can also play a game of dressing up as Santa Claus. Eventually, once the points add up, you can declare the winner. Groove to the music With the food and games sorted, don't forget to cue the music. Most people definitely have Spotify tuned in and if you can already make the playlist there, then that just makes life easier. However, Mumbaikar Ranson Corda, who has been a disc jockey (DJ) for more than 23 years now says you can do a lot more. "The applications like Spotify and YouTube music are the best platform for playlists for festivals like Christmas." Even though 37-year-old Corda says he isn't much of a Spotify user, he uses YouTube music extensively because their auto playlist suggestions are more accurate than Spotify. "All you need to do is just search a Christmas song in YouTube Music like 'Jingle Bells Rock by Bobby Helm' and all your next tracks would be related to Christmas." It also gives you the opportunity to create a custom playlist by adding these tracks to your new playlist. Additionally, Corda says if people are looking for specific genres, they can get non-stop DJ mixes on YouTube, which are almost hour-long sets, which can get your party grooving. What happens if you have bad internet? For that he says you need to get a hold of your DJ or shop at music stores around you. "Gone are the good old days when we used to go to Planet M and Rhythm House and buy CDs. These days you can download all these playlists online," he concludes. However, having done it himself, this writer believes you can always put songs in a pen drive and get the party started this festive season.
19 December,2023 10:14 AM IST | Mumbai | Nascimento Pinto
Parag Naik (31) welcomed a daughter into his life in 2020. In a conversation with Midday, the Mumbai-based pharmacist opens up about oversharing images of his firstborn child. “I mean, that’s what first-time parents do, right? I had tons of pictures of my child, and I just couldn’t help but share everything about her on social media.” He continues, “It felt like I had to post every single milestone like it was everyone’s business. A year later, the reality struck me that she was not even aware of her presence online. Consequently, I had to delete almost everything about her when I learnt of the risks that I was exposing her to.” The journey of parenthood starts with the inception of a child. With the advent of social media, a few parents have channelled this journey into sharing images and clips of their children online. However, if they were to do this in France – they would have to think twice. The country wants to penalise ‘sharenting,’ the practice of using social media to share news and images of children. But, why would the French government do that? In today’s world – a child’s image goes viral even before they have taken birth. Be it a baby bump or an ultrasound scan – the content becomes an object of sharing for new-gen parents. One of the reasons why France wants to ban this practice is because it’s violative of a child’s privacy who cannot even consent to their images being shared on social media. Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Tiktok – you name it and numerous accounts pop up that serve baby content on a daily basis. But do babies really need their own social media handles, websites, emails and Google accounts? Experts call it the sharenting syndrome. To learn more about the perils of sharenting, midday.com spoke to Dr Sonal Anand, a psychiatrist working with Wockhardt Hospitals. How does sharenting impact the parent-child relationship in terms of trust and privacy?Anand: Sharenting, the act of parents sharing their children's photos and personal information on social media, might hurt the parent-child relationship. While it may seem harmless, sharenting can have significant effects on trust and privacy within the family. 1. Children might feel a lack of control over their digital footprint and privacy as their childhood is documented and shared without their consent. 2. This can lead to feelings of betrayal and mistrust towards parents who prioritise online validation over respecting their child's boundaries. 3. Erosion of trust in the parental relationship may hinder open communication between parents and children, ultimately impacting the development of a healthy sense of autonomy and boundaries. Are there potential long-term effects on children's development linked to the constant sharing of their lives online?Anand: The constant sharing of children's lives online may lead to a heightened need for external validation, as children grow accustomed to getting approval through likes and comments on social media platforms. The pressure to present a prim and polished version of their lives online could impact their sense of self-worth and identity formation. Constant scrutiny by the public and potential cyberbullying could also lead to increased anxiety and performance pressure as they navigate the complexities of adolescence. Parents must consider the long-term developmental implications of sharing children's lives online and strike a balance between digital presence and privacy protection. What role does online visibility play in shaping a child's self-esteem and sense of identity?Anand: Online visibility plays a crucial role in shaping a child's self-esteem and sense of identity. With the rise of social media platforms, children are constantly exposed to curated versions of other people's lives, leading to comparisons and increased pressure to conform to certain standards. This can impact their self-worth as they strive for validation and acceptance from their online peers. Additionally, getting badgered into specific ideologies, beauty standards or values can lead to internalisation and adoption of these beliefs into their own identity. The oversharing culture on social media can blur the lines between public and private life for children, affecting how they perceive themselves and others. What are the potential dangers and risks associated with sharenting?Anand: One of the primary concerns is the violation of a child's privacy and their inability to consent to having their lives broadcasted online. This can have long-term implications as children may feel exposed or embarrassed by the content shared by their parents without their knowledge. 1. Sharenting puts children at risk of being targeted by online predators or identity thieves who may misuse shared information for malicious purposes. 2. The seemingly innocent act of sharing a child's milestone moments or daily activities can inadvertently expose them to unwanted attention from strangers in the digital world. 3. Parents may not realise that once something is posted online, it becomes permanent and can potentially affect a child's future reputation and opportunities. Are there instances where sharenting could lead to unintended consequences for the child's safety?Anand: Sharenting, the act of parents sharing their children's photos and personal information on social media, could potentially lead to unintended consequences for the child's safety. One significant risk is that these shared images and details might be used by malicious actors for identity theft or cyberbullying. Once information is posted online, it can be nearly impossible to completely erase it from the public domain. As a result, children may find themselves confronted with embarrassing or intrusive content about their past selves when they are older, impacting their personal and professional lives. In what ways can parents use sharenting to set positive examples for their children in terms of responsible digital behaviour?Anand: The practice of sharenting can be used as a tool for parents to set positive examples for their children in terms of responsible digital behaviour. By modelling thoughtful and respectful online sharing, parents can demonstrate to their kids the importance of considering others' privacy and consent. This can involve seeking permission from older children before posting pictures of them or refraining from oversharing personal details that could compromise a child's safety. Alternatively, parents can use sharenting as an opportunity to teach their children about digital literacy and critical thinking. By openly discussing with their kids what is appropriate to share online and what should be kept private, parents can help cultivate a healthy understanding of online boundaries and self-presentation. Are there positive aspects of sharenting that contribute to building a sense of community among parents?Anand: Yes, there are certain positive aspects to sharenting if done the right way. Sharing tips and advice through sharenting is helpful for others. The practice can create a platform for parents to celebrate their children's milestones and accomplishments with a wider audience. This virtual support network allows for empathy, encouragement and solidarity among parents who may be facing similar challenges or joys in raising their children. However, caution must be adopted in the amount of information being shared to maintain cyber safety.
19 December,2023 09:13 AM IST | Mumbai | Ainie Rizvi
The Covid-19 pandemic has changed the way we perceive everything around us including our workspaces, especially if we are working from the office. Even if the term work-from-home existed before, not many people had heard of it till many of us were forced to work from our homes. Some of quite a few outcomes were that people wanted to continue working from home, even as others were called to the office. Three years on, many corporate offices are calling their employees back to work. While some of them have to come to the workspace every day, others have to come alternate days, or just once or twice a week but that has given rise to a new trend. Commonly called ‘Coffee Badging’, it’s a term that has been circulating over the last few weeks because of the unique approach that it gives not only towards work but also the workspace. For those who are unaware of the trend, it simply means the act of showing up to work for a brief time to sip on some coffee, or chat with colleagues to show your presence before you leave to work from home again. The trend has accelerated because more people are expected to come to work for the first time since the pandemic, and not many of them are keen on it after they have seen the benefits of working from home and experts believe it was waiting to happen. Wake up and smell the coffeeCity-based HR consultant Srinivas Kulkarni explains, "I believe all the ‘trends’ like quiet quitting, quiet firing and now coffee badging are not new, and the ‘trending terms’ mostly see their origin from workspaces that are predominantly in the US. I don’t think the term and concept is new here or that popular in its literal sense." However, there is more to the trend than what meets the eye. It is because India not only has a long coffee tea break culture rather than structured work-break-work-go-home style. “But it is important to note, nowadays, most new-age workplaces, have accountability attached to the roles people have. At the end of the day, if people are responsible for the results, it doesn’t matter how they get the work done and how often they have to come to work, especially in roles that don’t require them to come,” he adds.Farzana Suri, city-based life and victory coach, says the key isn't just about clocking in anymore. “It is about having the freedom to choose when to do so. Let us face it, employees are often coffee-badging because they feel obligated to check-in. It is time for an open conversation, a fresh look at workplace policies, and an acknowledgement of the evolving nature of workplace presence. If you make that move, your employees are likely to reciprocate with a positive response.”It also points towards how efficiency has become the most important factor in getting one’s job done, adds Kulkarni. The human resource professional points out that if an arduous ‘shift-based’ culture is what is expected from employees, then it has its effects. He shares, “If the same work style continues, then we will keep seeing people find ways to work around such strong policies. Ideally, there is no need for coffee badging, if people get to do the work they love doing, the way they want, and flexible hybrid, remote work options.” If the employees are called back to the office so that they can work with their team and socialise, the Mumbaikar says it is essentially coffee badging itself. But, if there is flexibility introduced in systems, and accountability defined, people will surely respond better and won’t need to coffee badge at all. In a post-pandemic workplaceOne has to admit that coffee badging is the result of the changing dynamics of the workplace after the Covid-19 pandemic. The very idea of a physical workspace is good to have, says Kulkarni but the need and desire of having everyone come in daily is futile now. “It is especially evident in digital companies where it is proven that efficient work can be done without having to be in the office all the time.” Additionally, people will tend to find remote jobs or hybrid ones, points out Kulkarni as they would go to work at their choice and plan better to ensure the bonding exists and at the same time, they get their flexibility. “If organisations respect that, and can logistically manage this, it’s a win-win for all,” he adds. Such has been the change that Suri believes that the Covid-19 pandemic has accelerated a more flexible and agile approach to physical workspaces. She questions, “Are we valuing showing up over showing results? It is important to evaluate why it is happening, what you can do about it and how far are you willing to stretch. More and more employees avoid the trudge of a long commute and the cost over the ability to deliver more in the comfort of their work hours.” Interestingly, Kulkarni himself happens to be one of them and talks from experience because he is also currently undergoing the transition. Since the consultant doesn’t need to particularly to go to the office, he is choosing to be a digital nomad. The Mumbaikar explains, “I believe it would also give me and my partner to pursue our thought dream to settle down away from the city and yet have a career without being physically in an office every day. And of course, meet new people and network being a nomad.” The presence of co-working spaces makes all of it even easier because it not only works for the employees but also the organisations that spend less on office space and fits their budget. How HR can adaptIt is because of emerging trends like this that Kulkarni believes that the human resource departments in organisations in India need to evolve with the times, especially after the Covid-19 pandemic. He explains, “HR professionals, founders, management, and corporates need to realise that the pandemic gave a certain realisation of ‘freedom and flexibility’ to people and they understood that in this new information age, we are not bound by boundaries and can figure out ways and means to balance our lives with the work we have.” HR needs to understand that the growing economy as well as opportunities will keep on existing and the demand will keep surging, so whichever organizations have that free thinking and trust towards their employees with a great ecosystem and environment, for growth and learning, will thrive and survive in the cutting-edge world. He explains, “HR thought leaders who adapt and adopt this new way of workplace, will be lauded for such efforts. It is also why we should focus on creating workplace environments, and policies with a mix of work-from-home and hybrid work models, especially after the pandemic. They should ensure that managers understand and give flexibility to the employees, so they wouldn’t need to ‘coffee badge’ them.” On the other hand, Suri says the HR department of the organisation has to adapt to the changing work landscape. She explains, “It is crucial to figure out why remote work is becoming more popular and how it is affecting productivity. If HR notices a drop in productivity, it might be time to get a handle on office hours. Regardless of where employees work, it's imperative to ensure that managers evaluate them based on their effort and results, not just how often they're in the office.” The city-based life and victory coach says judging performance solely on physical presence can be misleading. “In a hybrid work setup, it's vital to remind managers to focus on things like the quality of work, quantity, and their ability to meet or exceed goals,” she says, continuing, “HR needs to update policies, look out for the well-being of employees, and make sure everyone feels included and valued. It is all about staying connected and supportive in this new normal.”At the end of the day, Suri says providing people with what they desire often leads to increased conscientiousness and commitment. She concludes, “Meeting their needs and preferences fosters a sense of appreciation and responsibility, driving individuals to be more diligent and dedicated in their endeavours.”
18 December,2023 06:36 PM IST | Mumbai | Nascimento PintoADVERTISEMENT
